Joined: 19 November 2005
Ther are many friends in your life we do categorized them as
Friends, Good friends, Best friends…
But, as we are part of this Virtual world we come across many persons
And after talking to them we start considering them as friends too.
But do you thing can there be any good friendship virtually???
Let me tell you all, what I have seen and observed.
Members strike friendship here in no time and same goes for break ups.
They share mails, chat for many hours and so on. But
Later on if on some point disagreement is there or choices are different
Then Friendship is over for them.
They start taking potshots at each other directly or indirectly.
They don't think weather the person behind the ID is hurt or upset.
Some members strike such a wonderful relation that they are
always there to help each other.
They give importance & treat them more then a real friend.
And share things with them which they can't share with
Some members are so quite, calm and shy in real life.
But in Virtual they are labeled as "Don of Entertainment".
So I would like to ask you all about Real & Virtual friendship.
According to you is there any difference? If yes then what?
And which one you feel is superior?
What is your take on the people who first do friendship?
then breakup for silly reasons? Or take potshot at them?
Joined: 27 January 2006
Ahmed Bhai what a time to open this topic thanx a lot i have been searching for something like this.
Let me tell you firstly that there is hell of a lot of difference between virtual and real friendship. In Virtual friendship you dont understand people and often get cheated.You believe too much on them and they take undue advantage of inncoent people to make a fool of them.
In real friendship at least with the passing of time you get to know the person properly at least you get to know he/she is not cheating you or making a mockery of the relation called friendship.
In virtual world you cannot say who is true and who is false you seem everything is ok as it looks ok to you. You dont get to see the motive or expressions between each word they speak.
There should be some shame in people who break friendship because they have no right to play with emotions of other people and make a mockery of their feelings in front of everybody. They dont deserve friends at all. They break the faith of people who believe them and for people like these if a person is worth believing is not being believed. They spoil the whole atmosphere and the mindset of all those people whom they hurt.
This is my POW no one is to feel bad about this as i am telling some of my experiences.
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Bhiajaan , good topic.
For me "friendship" is the key word. Its one of the most pure relationship- things like backstabbing, jealousy, deceit or vested interest should not surface there. Real or virtual, the essence and commitment of friendship is what matters.....its the most real relationship.Dost to bahut bana lete hain, its how many can actually nibhao that one truly. No one should misuse trust .bharosa toot gaya to , woh dost to rahe jaate hain but "real" dost nahi rehta...
Expect nothing in return and commit yourself totally, dil se .Most important, never take your friend for granted ;never backstab and never break trust.... when this is followed by both parties, friendship flourishes....
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saara I also like Anu's siggy but trust is the main thing in friendship and if that trust is broken again and again by virtual people who call themselves best of friends then what will one do. You can at least judge a person if he/ she is in front of you.
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