Double Standards

Originally posted by moon_2016

I must say Om has "Double standards" --He himself married Rishika and had 3 kids with her when he was away for 20years so he has no right to question Parvati and get all worked up about it-- he should accept it if its true--just like she accepted his children!!! and she does not have to justify herself to any of the family members as well as she was not living with them at that time and was supposedly out of their lives. Kamal as usual seems to be the only one to trust her.She should have married Suyash Mehra when she got a chance--- no Chayya then-- and Om is always questioning her and doubting her!!!
 

Just to clear you, Om did not marry Rishika and the 3 kids are not his! Om lost him memory after which Rishika took him with her, and she told him that he was her husband. obviously because of amnesia he believed and raised the kids which are actually Rishabh's!! Rishika and Om were never actually married... Om had no such relation with Rishika...

 When Om remembered his past he came back to Parvati So Om was not unfaithful to Parvati and he did not have any extra-marital relations. He loves only Parvati. But the 3 kids are so attached to Om that they consider him as their dad. But he is not their biological father...

Also, Om is not doubting Parvati. He knows that Parvati would never do such a thing. He asks her to take a DNA test so that she could prove herself to others and so that no one would badmouth her.

Hope this clears up a little

That is exactly the point. IF its true. Om does not know whether it's true or not, because even Parvati cannot give him a straight answer. She says its not true, but then she herself gets flashbacks of spending time with Aditi, and is shocked and confused. If she doesn't know what's right and what's not, how can Om know?? If Aditi is Paro's daughter, then Om would have no problem accepting her; he accepted that she has a relationship with Suyash Mehra's son Ashu, and she accepted his relationship with the RC girls. But until they know the truth, they cannot move forward and deal with it. Om is not suspecting her of "having an affair" (Chaya's entire reasoning is stupid because everyone thought that Om was dead for 20 years, and a widow has full right to re-marry and have children, esp. when the rest of her family assume she is dead); Om wants to know what the truth is about her relationship with Aditi - they are two different things. Doing a DNA test would solve Paro's confusion as well as everyone else's.

Although there is something that annoys me - the whole family is leaning towards Paro and berating her for this Aditi mess; hasn't anyone considered that maybe Aditi is lying? Maybe they should investigate her and find out what her deal is?? For all they know, she could be in cahoots with Sasha!