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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 10:52pm | IP Logged
Is Arranged Marriage ensure happy, productive families?
I born n grow up in America, but i m kind of between 2 cultures.. Indian n American. one of my childhood friend's sister is getting married this May. her mom choose guy for her so its Arranged Marriage so, i just want to know tht ..IS ARRANGED MARRIAGE ENSURE HAPPY, PRODUCTIVE FAMILIES?

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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 4:17am | IP Logged

Originally posted by Tarana

Is Arranged Marriage ensure happy, productive families?
I born n grow up in America, but i m kind of between 2 cultures.. Indian n American. one of my childhood friend's sister is getting married this May. her mom choose guy for her so its Arranged Marriage so, i just want to know tht ..IS ARRANGED MARRIAGE ENSURE HAPPY, PRODUCTIVE FAMILIES?

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Did she get a say in the decision? If not then its a forced marriage, not an arranged marriage.

It doesn't matter if it's an arranged marriage or a love marriage...both individuals still have to work at their relationship together and compromise in some situations. There isn't a guarantee saying that just because you have an arranged marriage, you will be more happy.

Here in the UK, alot of arranged marriages have failed just as many love marriages.

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No, they dont is the short answer.

There are no guarentees for anything in life I'm afraid

The only plus to an arranged marriage......

Go grab the bugger who arranged it and knock his block off!!! LOL

In love marriage situation, you have to slap yourself!!

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Originally posted by Madmadgirl

No, they dont is the short answer.

There are no guarentees for anything in life I'm afraid

The only plus to an arranged marriage......

Go grab the bugger who arranged it and knock his block off!!! LOL

In love marriage situation, you have to slap yourself!!

Angry M Angry

ROFL 

One more vote for "no guarantees". Tongue 

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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 9:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Gauri_3

Originally posted by SholaJoBhadkey

Originally posted by Madmadgirl

No, they dont is the short answer.

There are no guarentees for anything in life I'm afraid

The only plus to an arranged marriage......

Go grab the bugger who arranged it and knock his block off!!! LOL

In love marriage situation, you have to slap yourself!!

Angry M Angry

ROFL 

One more vote for "no guarantees". Tongue 

ROFL make that two!!!

MMG, great post yaar.  tussi chha gayeLOL

My vote too.

The only guarentee is  in most arranged marriages  is that there is the support of the family if somthing happend after marriage.  Other than that there is no difference, we have to adjust, sometimes compromise in  in both kind of marriages. As in every relationship, for the  success of marriage also  love, loyality, adjustment, compromise  etc. are necessaary.



Edited by nitasuni - 02 April 2008 at 9:18am
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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 9:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nitasuni

My vote too.

The only guarentee is  in most arranged marriages  is that there is the support of the family if somthing happend after marriage.  Other than that there is no difference, we have to adjust, sometimes compromise in  in both kind of marriages. As in every relationship, for the  success of marriage also  love, loyality, adjustment, compromise  etc. are necessaary.

I don't agree with you there. I would say that family support is guaranteed because your family cares for you, irrespective of the kind of marriage you had. Even if you have gone against your family and got married, when the need arises your family will stand by you. Tongue 

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