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raj5000

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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:05pm | IP Logged

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Are you aware of this http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2008/03/11/1205125909770.h tml

Am sure you are aware of Clinton story and many more in India...why women  of the house, have to take a back step on such scenarios

Heard on radio that males infidelity is more physical then mental, subjected to ignorance, acceptable?

Bottom line is if Men involved in infidelity are given benefit of doubt, kinna of why as campared to women.  Agreed?:

Is it fault of physical confguration built by creator, is there a flaw in his/her creation?

Infidelity of any nature if so blah, unless there is a valid reason, what do you think?

Going to blah place to entertain potential client as a sales pitch is Ouch?

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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:18pm | IP Logged
of course yes... if its legal or the woman is modern enough....and please stop calling it infidelity (its too negative and stereotypical)  call it.. being loyally challenged...in matters of s*x..

LOL LOL



Edited by qwertyesque - 11 March 2008 at 9:19pm

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Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:48pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by qwertyesque

of course yes... if its legal or the woman is modern enough....and please stop calling it infidelity (its too negative and stereotypical)  call it.. being loyally challenged...in matters of s*x..

LOL LOL

infidelity  in that case has to be redefinedConfusedLOL

 Modern enuff??,  ON side note:- there are still questions regarding gender equality of women,socially even though Men these days are keeping karva chauth vrathLOLLOL, modern outlook is not possible as for selfish reason or for cocoonish [ity filled habitual lifestyle of few. It's an equal world live upto to that.

 

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Posted: 12 March 2008 at 2:20am | IP Logged

Originally posted by qwertyesque

of course yes... if its legal or the woman is modern enough....and please stop calling it infidelity (its too negative and stereotypical)  call it.. being loyally challenged...in matters of s*x..

LOL LOL

Which woman - the one who was partner in infidelity or the one whose husband was loyally challenged?? Wink

In my opinion, infidelity is totally unacceptable irrespective of gender. Women tend to accept it, not because they are modern but because they stand to lose more than anyone else. The stigma attached to being a divorcee is infinitely worse than knowing your husband has cheated on you. If a man cheats, it's somehow made to be his wife's fault. If a woman cheats, she's the tramp and the poor husband is the sad victim. 

As for Hillary, she wanted power and she wasn't going to get it by being Bill's ex-wife!  

 

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Posted: 12 March 2008 at 6:17am | IP Logged

Originally posted by qwertyesque

of course yes... if its legal or the woman is modern enough....and please stop calling it infidelity (its too negative and stereotypical)  call it.. being loyally challenged...in matters of s*x..

LOL LOL

Uh!! Thats a bit too absolute.. The word Modern may itself mean different things to different woman..  I wud say if the woman is modern enough, She shud probably not be scared or hesitant about voicing about her disapproval of it.(assuming she does)

Actually its  relative. Different strokes for different folks.
Apart from being just a physical activity, s*x  also happens to be another expression of love for many.. So, Acc to me, Infidelity , Physical or emotional, by any gender is Unacceptable

Going to blah place to entertain potential client as a sales pitch is probably the worst bit of it. Unacceptable And Disgusting.. Bt then , hunger for money and power makes ppl do a lot of things

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Posted: 12 March 2008 at 6:38am | IP Logged
Infidelity is totally not acceptable....cos even if your spouse forgives you the guilt will always remain Ouch

Our society is not at all tolerant towards women when it comes to them being divorced, so many women learn to adjust even though they know their husbands are having an affair Dead

Edited by Connie - 12 March 2008 at 9:48am

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Posted: 12 March 2008 at 1:36pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by SholaJoBhadkey

Infidelity is totally unacceptable irrespective of gender.

I totally agree!Embarrassed

If a man cheats, it's somehow made to be his wife's fault. If a woman cheats, she's the tramp and the poor husband is the sad victim. 

That happens, but the men aren't always let off the hook...

As for Hillary, she wanted power and she wasn't going to get it by being Bill's ex-wife! 

Exactly!LOL 

I'd like to take the example of the recent movie, Khabie Alvida Na Kehna...the basic message was that if your marriage partner turns out not to be your soulmate, it's perfectly okay to leave them for someone else who you think is your soulmate. This is absolutely BS in my opinion, you made a commitment, uphold it, you should be able to control your lust. If you can't, don't make the commitment.

 



Edited by sweetmagic4u - 12 March 2008 at 1:37pm

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Posted: 12 March 2008 at 2:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweetmagic4u

Originally posted by SholaJoBhadkey

Infidelity is totally unacceptable irrespective of gender.

I totally agree!Embarrassed

If a man cheats, it's somehow made to be his wife's fault. If a woman cheats, she's the tramp and the poor husband is the sad victim. 

That happens, but the men aren't always let off the hook...Yeah, but the percentage is much lower compared to women!

As for Hillary, she wanted power and she wasn't going to get it by being Bill's ex-wife! 

Exactly!LOL 

I'd like to take the example of the recent movie, Khabie Alvida Na Kehna...the basic message was that if your marriage partner turns out not to be your soulmate, it's perfectly okay to leave them for someone else who you think is your soulmate. This is absolutely BS in my opinion, you made a commitment, uphold it, you should be able to control your lust. If you can't, don't make the commitment.

And then you find that he/she is not your soulmate either, so you go to the next one, and then...it can go on ad nauseam! Yun hi chala chal rahi LOL



Edited by SholaJoBhadkey - 12 March 2008 at 2:20pm

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