This content was originally posted by: Anuradha
But the big questions is - Is she really free?????
Not really, b'coz i have seen places where women literally struggle to make a place in the family. But do agree that it has become better than what was 10 yrs ago, but still women in our society is not treated equally as she has to b treated.
Though she is praised for what she is, has she till now achieved the 100% freedom in life?????
we can say she has just achieved 60% of the freedom & is still struggling for that 40%. Though in my house such differences does'nt exist but have seen some in my neighbourhood. Where the girl is always not looked upon properly so that the boy child can b taken care of in a proper manner. Still parnts seem to b wanting a boy more than a girl child as the boy takes care of the family in the near future & girls are said to b "paraya dhan" and that she has to take care of in-laws after getting married.
And the next questions is will she ever achieve 100% freedom???
Please do share your views on this π
i really cannot answer this q as its the thinking of the ppl that has to b changed & not the person. This can happen if ppl bring that maturity in thier thinking n thoughts. They have to take get that feeking that daughters would b thier daughters even when she gets married off to someone else. A Daughter too can take care of her family at all phases of life. She too can take up responsibilities in the same way a son does.
This is what i personally believe which most of the ppl in this world don't agree to
This content was originally posted by: Anuradha
If there is a boy and a girl in a house, more importance is given to the boy of the house... Before marriage, she has to listen to what her parents say and they are the one to take decisions for her and after marriage she needs to take permissions from her In-Laws...
This content was originally posted by: smallwonder
Wrong π³ This is a misconception... I am a part of a house where we have a boy and girl, but ask me - no way the boy gets more attention... Its the other way roundπ Not that anyone is complaining, but just to remove this myth...π Sure, it may not be the case with everyone, but the same way, to generalise and say that girls get less importance is false...
Yes I agree its not to be generalized... In many of the cases where I have seen, the boys are given more importance.. Now the importance here can mean in different ways... Though more care is given to girls, they are mostly sidelined in the say of many decisions taken by the family...
Many parents feel its the guy who would take care of them at the later stages and their responsibility towards the girl is to ensure that she gets married in a nice family and stays happy...
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