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Dear Agony Aunt: I feel soo insecure.

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Posted: 24 February 2008 at 5:08pm | IP Logged

If my response is personal PLZ edit.

Dear Priyanka,

Understanding your situation might be alittle tough.

Everyone needs to be loved! but u just might be looking for love at the wrong corner. Relationships are made with love from both sides and trust. without these everything else is a lie.

Since u dump him I would suggest to wait a few months for him(2 months) to come back if he doesn't just look at it as it was never ment to be.

Good Luck!Thumbs Up

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Posted: 25 February 2008 at 11:23pm | IP Logged
i'm not taking sides here, not your side, his or his ex. the thing is.. are you ready for a relationship? because of the 10 year gap. it is a bit complicated lol. he's fully an adult! he's experienced and almost jaded. you, you're young and still experiencing. nobody wants to get hurt. for now i would say.. "even lovers needs space" so give it a time.
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Posted: 26 February 2008 at 5:17pm | IP Logged
well well well you write at the beginning of the relationship he lied to you so ur relation started with a lie.you are just 21 and believe me there is a guy out there made for only you who is going to love you unonditionally.you took a bold step of breaking up...now wait and watch...if he begs to come back you better lay out some rules and facts...if he doesn't he was never meant to be with you....look ahead there is a very handsome,good hearted guy somewhere there....and not 31 but in his 20's hopefully.
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Posted: 27 February 2008 at 4:30am | IP Logged
Agony Aunty.......Dont marry the person you love......marry the person who loves you......

just chill

vinu
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Posted: 27 February 2008 at 12:11pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

Agony Aunty.......Dont marry the person you love......marry the person who loves you......

just chill

vinu
for some reason this cracked me up ^^ it seems like a fake laugh lol >.< but i'm really laughing ;)
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Posted: 27 February 2008 at 4:58pm | IP Logged
hey priyanka...

Your situation is one which makes you vulnerable. Though ur relation started with a lie it is love that brought you and him together for some time. You felt you had to ditch him because of his irresponsible nature and you had made a good decision.

Right now, if he bothers to think about his attitude and admits he did wrong, and comes back, you would be more than elated. However if he doesn't, let your pain of love heal naturally. Remember whatever that happens, it does for a good cause.

Somewhere in your destiny, there could be someone who is more mature and responsible who's just waiting for you.. And thatz when the entire universe will help you in finding him.

I wish you all the best!!! Wink

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