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Posted: 08 September 2005 at 3:26pm | IP Logged
guyz i'm not sayin don't listen 2 ur parents but u all ave a ryt 2 do wot u want nd 2 b wot u want 2 b...ur parents can't force a decision on u nd except u accept that decision even if u don't want 2!! yes...ur parents wish best 4 u but itz ur lyf...u decide wot u want 2 do. ur parents wish the best 4 u but in the end u ave 2 decide wot u want 2 b

pixiedust...i think that u should b wot u want...but don't ignore ur parents...i'm sure they mean the best 4 u...they jus want u 2 ave a gud job...that's it...but choose a job which suits u nd ur parents
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Posted: 08 September 2005 at 4:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by punjabiprincess

Originally posted by simi1295

i dont agree with you. being an indian and having alot of indian friends. nor my parents or my friends parents ever made us do anything we didnt want to do. my parnets always told me to have good education, no matter what i was studyn as long as i was doing somting.

I agree with you 100%Thumbs Up, my parents are like that too. They just want me to be happy in the future and get a well education, no matter what my career choice is.Smile

I too agree, but my parents really want me to be a doctor, but I don't want to be one.

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Posted: 09 September 2005 at 11:48am | IP Logged
ya..its so true...indian parents always want their children 2 b dr.s...itz prob. b coz u get gud money but realli...i think u should do wot u want 2 do!
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Posted: 10 September 2005 at 8:04am | IP Logged
Yep Indian parents want their kids to be engineers and doctors, but not my parents, I had a science background in school, did clear engineering entrance exam but my heart was not into it, so I opted for something different and I am enjoying everybit of it. I hope to do MBA in the future.
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Posted: 10 September 2005 at 5:18pm | IP Logged
It is true that a lot of Indian parents want their kids to become doctors b/c you earn a lot of money, but it's not always the case.

For instance, I've always wanted to become a doctor and my parents had absolutely no bearing on this decision of mine. My parents aren't doctors at all. My mom is an accountant and she wanted me to become one, but I didn't really like it. Science is just something I really liked, especially Medical Science and then when I volunteered at a hospital I realized I really want to do this.

Although the profession pays well, I never ever would have gone into it just for the money or if my parents would have forced me to. Because if you're stuck in a career which you hate, then it doesn't matter how much you get paid--you'll always be miserable.

My advice to anyone who feels pressure to go into a certain field or profession by their parents is to just sit down and chat with them (that's what I did when I told my mom i didn't really want to become an accountant or lawyer) and explain what the positive points are in the profession which you really want to pursue. Most importantly, tell them that you will be happy. In the end, your parents want you to be happy and they will support you--you just have to talk to them.
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Posted: 12 September 2005 at 10:08am | IP Logged
thnx 4 the advice anjali Big smile
i'm only 13 but i'm jus sayin all this bcoz i ave lots of frens hu feel pressurised atm so i jus wanted all ur advice...thnx Hug
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Posted: 18 September 2005 at 9:44am | IP Logged
well not all of them!! but i dunno i guess to them enginners and doctors is the only good field Confused
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Posted: 18 September 2005 at 12:07pm | IP Logged
Well, the thing is, I have absolutely no clue what i will be, i've been thinking soo much on what i should turn out to be, im thinking of being a an engineer, but I'm not soo sure if I'd be good at it, and the things I enjoy doing, are somethings that I really need to improve, I have another 3 years to think about my career so i can actually take the course in college, my parents don't care what field I take, they just want me to be happy, sure they will pressure me, becuz they do pressure my brother, but not as much because they understand how biomedical engineering is like. SO basically my parents really understand what we are going through!

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