Originally posted by: Morning_Dew
I am still reading all the responsesπ
Very well said lighty , though I am not saying I am agreeing with you π
See your egs are hardly compareable to virtual flirting and situation you are giving about low cut blouses etc.. come on .. In real world we all dress to project an image. What messege does one send to men by flaunting themselves sexually.. I am not against anyone's choice of clothing attire for themselves or how a woman visually presents herself through her clothes or lack thereof, but I definitely see its similarity to flirting in that they both are methods of attention seeking interaction with others.
a wife is going, along with her husband in such way.. and husband doesn't have any objection .. then what is the problem ..A woman who dresses provocatively might not intend to send a sexual message, but that's what is picked up. Some husbands won't object to it in the interest of appearing secure or modern, while others insist on traditional dress code for their wives. yes the problem is when husband and wife decided something between them but one of them break it at his/her back knowing it would not be approved by their spouse and would be considered cheating , it may not be a cheating for me or for you .. Why should we judge what is or isn't cheating for them?.
Now comes to the open flirting .. again .. I've seen many people who are married and do open flirting on forum or chat room etc and it is not hidden from their spouses, nore common people.. what is the big deal.... I was certainly not talking about themπ Agreed .. Some people are of the opinion that harmless flirting actually adds spice to married life.
as for your last point. that it is not compareable to real cheating ..how come ? are their spouses ok with it. whatever they are doing other wise a norm of society ? if yes, why can't they do it openly like some "harmless flirt"π Don't men look or oggle at attractive women or watch p*** even when they know their wives object to it? Adultery is actually what happened in KANK, that one night ruined their lives, that is real cheating. Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. Flirting is words, just like men know they can look but not touch. there is a very fine line and once that is crossed, it is upto the spouses to deal with it as they see fit.
You are so right collectively our tolerance is higher for manythings once forbidden , even than certain feelings are same ..
It is funny how dictionaries define flirting - Miriam Webster - "to behave amorously without serious intent" and Banahrt 1968 edition - "making love without meaning it"
It is amazing how definitions have changed in last 40 years.
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