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Have you seen a married couple who has been married for 2 or more years?
Can you tell if they had love or arranged marriage? You see it doesn't matter, love or arranged , the couples will look and behave the same in most cases.
Very easy, if after 2 years they havn't started fighting thats a arranged marraige, still figuring it out
No, seeing the stress or asking few question one can easily make out. Ask them what is the date they first met and when is thier monthly anniversary... arranged marraige duo will loose Yes there are exception always...
OMG how can you say that? I have had an arranged marriage and for me my hubby is the best person I have met. We remember our anniversaries, and all the dates. I don't know you're married or not otherwise you would have known the meaning of marriage and whether love marriage is better or arranged. It's not true that in arranged marriages , couples don't know each other. Arranged marriage is not like tdy you met, tomorrow you say "yes" and day after you're getting married. The courtship period of 2-3-6-7 months is enough time to know about each other. Secondly there's no parental pressure that you HAVE to say yes..ultimately it's your decision. Of course you can decide in those few hours that this is the person i wanna spend the rest of my life with. Doesn't love happen in a moment?
I'm not advocating either type of marriage. In both the cases, life after marriage remains the same. the problems, the joys , the sorrows remain silimar. But in both type of marriages, one MUST be practical in choosing their partners. They must know what they want from life for themselves...
Love & love marriage is not what is shown on TV or movies. making compromises, adjustments after marriage is NOT easy. It's not that a rich girl marries a poor guy and they live happily ever after. Sometimes when couples go against their parents they have to start their lives from zero. It may or may not work . At least in arranged marriage you have the support of your family , your parents which matters a lot. More than love marriage, i'm against the idea of eloping n marry against their parents wishes.
Life after marriage is all about making compromises, adjustments , sharing and understanding, how well you can adjust with your spouse's family etc.. and the only thing which can make you do this is "love & contentment with your partner and yourself"
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I respect your opinion coz ur not married yet. Whether u fall in love earlier or later, married life is just the same. I instantly fell in love with the person who was chosen by my parents. I guess everybody has a wrong picture of arranged marriages. It's not like it was 20-30 years back when the girl and boy hardly met before marriage and their "yes" or "no" didn't matter. The times have drastically changed. Now even if parents suggest that this is the girl or boy, they never force their opinion on their children. I read recently that the youngsters in metros nowdays prefer more arranged marriages bec. it gives them a security in every way and also, freedom to say yes or no. there's no compulsion of any kind. Just bec. your parents have selected ur partner doesn't mean he/she will be bad.
I think "love" is a totally different thing and it should not be mixed with marriage. Be it arranged marriage or love, think think and rethink twice thrice before taking this BIG decision.
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