Debate Mansion
Debate Mansion

India-Forums

   

Type of Marriages - Personal Vedicts?

raj5000 Moderator
raj5000
raj5000

Joined: 01 January 2006
Posts: 11737

Posted: 20 November 2007 at 9:26pm | IP Logged

Love VS Arranged marraiges

I know we had debates on this topic, but here want bring some reality check, undestand not always applicable but experience counts

If you or based on experience of close friend/family who had love marraige whats your take -  would you preach love marriage or arranged marriages?

 



Edited by raj5000 - 20 November 2007 at 9:27pm

SholaJoBhadkey IF-Dazzler
SholaJoBhadkey
SholaJoBhadkey

Joined: 23 August 2005
Posts: 2672

Posted: 21 November 2007 at 7:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by raj5000

Love VS Arranged marraiges

I know we had debates on this topic, but here want bring some reality check, undestand not always applicable but experience counts

If you or based on experience of close friend/family who had love marraige whats your take -  would you preach love marriage or arranged marriages?

 

Raj

Kyon gadey murday ukhaad rahey ho? Looks like you are missing "danda chalana" LOL

I am happy with love marriage and would advocate it, but then I look at my parents and arranged marriage doesn't seem bad either. I think it's not how you got married, but what you make of it that's more important Smile

lighthouse IF-Dazzler
lighthouse
lighthouse

Joined: 18 January 2006
Posts: 2842

Posted: 21 November 2007 at 9:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by raj5000

Love VS Arranged marraiges

 Why choose? Have both..!!!  Pehle arrange marriage then fall in love with your spouse and have love marriage ceremony on your 10th wedding anniversary.Wink

return_to_hades IF-Veteran Member
return_to_hades
return_to_hades

Joined: 18 January 2006
Posts: 21522

Posted: 21 November 2007 at 9:23pm | IP Logged
Or you can fall in love and share your perspective with your family and have them arrange it.
-Believe- IF-Stunnerz
-Believe-
-Believe-

Joined: 03 December 2005
Posts: 27081

Posted: 21 November 2007 at 10:00pm | IP Logged
If it Love or Arrange marriage, Dont marry the person who YOU love.........Marry the person Who loves you.... Embarrassed
Ms.GoodMorning IF-Stunnerz

Joined: 16 January 2007
Posts: 26760

Posted: 21 November 2007 at 11:25pm | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.
nitasuni Senior Member
nitasuni
nitasuni

Joined: 08 August 2007
Posts: 850

Posted: 22 November 2007 at 2:42am | IP Logged
Myself experiencing arranged marriage, not bad. Love marriages are in my family (three of my cousins and one of my brothers - which is also good.

If there is little understanding and love,in both cases, you can survive.

Edited by nitasuni - 22 November 2007 at 2:43am
sohn Senior Member
sohn
sohn

Joined: 14 June 2007
Posts: 511

Posted: 22 November 2007 at 4:53am | IP Logged
If my shweety cutie mum had a say in this, Im sure she will say....Shaadi kar lo Sonia, bass! Kaisi bhi ho, love marriage ya arranged, lekin shaadi karo! She is so scared of the live-inz going on around her, lol she is going to be extremely happy if I MARRY, ahem Tongue LOL LOL

Personally, its a gamble either ways I think, so doesn't matter as long as you survive it.

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
gay marriages shudd b aloowedd??

2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

Author: Calvin-N-Hobbes   Replies: 79   Views: 4705

Calvin-N-Hobbes 79 4705 13 November 2009 at 12:55am by return_to_hades
2nd Marriages without divorcing 1st one

2 3 4 5 6 7

Author: cool_pooja   Replies: 51   Views: 2663

cool_pooja 51 2663 16 May 2008 at 2:06pm by Gauri_3
Inter cultural marriages - will work?

2 3 4

Author: raj5000   Replies: 29   Views: 4703

raj5000 29 4703 03 March 2008 at 8:44am by lighthouse
Flirting, a type of Sexual Harassment ?

2 3

Author: persistence   Replies: 22   Views: 2248

persistence 22 2248 02 August 2007 at 2:56pm by Meena1
Same sex marriages?

Author: Bubbly_Shelly   Replies: 2   Views: 470

Bubbly_Shelly 2 470 27 June 2007 at 5:15pm by raj5000

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index