Originally posted by: sabz86I think u neeed to change ur pic first innocent indian π‘ than ill answer ur question !
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There you go sabz π...I'm succumbing to your every whim and fancy (perhaps spoiling you simran-styleπ)....i changed my pic...
now please give us your thoughts as to what should be done....We've had a lot of response and personally, I am against the slapping and kicking out stuff, but I also don't know what to do cos other than sitting and talking it out with her, I really don't know what the answer is...so, what do u think?
Come on, we're waiting....π
Originally posted by: scorpio_pkI don't think parents need any councillor for their kids, they could understand and analyze their behaviour better than a councillor.I have 3 teenager kids and I have been through so many difficult and different phases of problems with them but still most important thing is to understand what exactly the problem with your child then you can sort out the things and solve every problems very easily...In Aastha's case I don't think Abhi-Simran are understanding her problems and instead of taking her into confidence and explain her everything,they are doing just the opposite.
I disagree with your blanket statement that parents dont need counsellors for their kids, maybe you have been lucky and have the qualities and the knowledge and expertise of a counsellor or child pshychologist and maybe you really know how to solve all their problems and for that i give you alot of credit, but in most cases parents can only be parents and stand by their kids and give them unconditional love and support but sometimes situations arise in which even the most loving and supportive parents are at a loss for words and knowledge and dont know how to deal with those situations adequately. in such a case the introductiion of a counsellor is one of the best things u can do for your child. There are certain protocols that need to be followed and special steps need to be taken to help that troubled child and parents with all their love and devotion are sometimes just not trained in that area in which their child needs help. I would love to help both my preteen and teenager in all walks of life but certain problems could be just beyond my realm and I would at that stage welcome the entry of a trained counsellor to aid my child in getting onto the right path.Sometimes Love is just not enough and I am sure our love coupled with the counsellors help and guidance would show the right direction to our kids.
Originally posted by: Akshata
I agree with all your points except the first.
oh dear , sorry aksh...i disagree with everything wawa wrote....
I just don't think they are being bad parents, on the whole. Yes, abhi did make his mstakes...yes, simran did make the mistake of not telliing astha when she had the chance...and, i suppose, the other thing is that, yes, simran has spoilt astha a trifle too much...but she still isn't a babd parent...
The current situation has not arisen because it was created (although, yes, they had ample opportunity to avoid it), but a lot of it has been shown to be destiny...It is as if they made a mistake in the beginning, and then have had to be carried away by the flow. For certain, I do not think abhi and simran have put themselves before astha.
I suppose we all have our own views on this.E.G, some people think simran and abhi are giving more attention to sia than to astha, and i keep thinking are those people even watching the same program as me? Cos I keep thinking that astha is being given preference over sia...
anyway, just my tuppence folks.....
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