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-misha
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Welcome mera pyaara doston!
to another Discussion of the Week.. only at the Health and Fitness Section!
You must be wondering... Does it matter to you?
Well, you must have seen or heard people being bullied or ignored because they are fat, etc.. therefore other people judge you by the way you look..
Why do people often treat other people like that...? Have you ever ignored a person who is fat or overweight? Have you ever been in such a situation?
Well thats all for this week! Share your views and experiences with us.
The person with the best answer will be rewarded with a siggy.
So jet set GOO! Happy Posting!
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cheri
IF-Rockerz
Joined: 14 March 2006
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advil
IF-Sizzlerz
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Why do people often treat other people like that...?
Its always easier to laugh at someone else, and thats precisely what some people do. Human beings have this instinct to be the superior and selfish and when they find something that according to them is a flaw in someone else, they take full advantage of it and make sure to utilise it to the utmost. However in this persuit they very often forget that the other person who may be fat , his or her feelings and morale can be hurt beyond repair. Have you ever ignored a person who is fat or overweight?
No, so far no.Physical appearance is the least of my worries.Compatibility is the key word. So long we gel and have a good time together, his her or my looks why should they come into the picture ?Its the persons wit humour intelligences,aptitude and offcourse the wavelength I connect with , not the physical attributes.
Have you ever been in such a situation?
Well, I personally am not overweight.So I never had to face it myself. But yes I do have friends who are above their weight limits, but they are also some of the best people to be with - fantastic human beings with great sense of humour and are very talented too. So to me their friendship means much more than these trivial things. Won't say haven't tried to make them lose weight...not by directly saying it, but by making them participate more in games like tennis, badminton by challenging them to a game
Then offcourse there is hockey, soccer and swimming.
2smart4u
IF-Sizzlerz
Joined: 12 April 2006
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2smart4u
IF-Sizzlerz
Joined: 12 April 2006
Posts: 10502
advil
IF-Sizzlerz
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Posts: 23771
Have you ever been in such a situation?
Well, I personally am not overweight.So I never had to face it myself. But yes I do have friends who are above their weight limits, but they are also some of the best people to be with - fantastic human beings with great sense of humour and are very talented too. So to me their friendship means much more than these trivial things. Won't say haven't tried to make them lose weight...not by directly saying it, but by making them participate more in games like tennis, badminton by challenging them to a game Then offcourse there is hockey, soccer and swimming.
No, I would never talk such things,it takes too much effort..I believe that instead of making the person self conscious that way, there are far innovative ways to make the person excercise without the person realising it....that way the person tries effortlessly ,has no complex in mind and the results speak..Actions speak louder than words...
2smart4u
IF-Sizzlerz
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advil
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omg what happened to u????? u gained sooo much weight..does that sound bad?
No, becasue I haven't gained the weight.See I am not telling you..." Its time for your eye checkup..."
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