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revenge or forgiveness?

usachick821 Goldie

Joined: 02 May 2005
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Posted: 22 August 2005 at 11:22am | IP Logged
if you found out that ur hubby/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, lover or w/e was cheating on you, and then told you that he/she was leaving u for that person, would u take revenge on them? Or forgive what they have done, accept it and move on without a fight? plz explain ur answer!!

ME_T Senior Member

Joined: 18 January 2005
Posts: 681

Posted: 22 August 2005 at 6:38pm | IP Logged
not 4give. but not revenge either
Aparna_BD IF-Dazzler

Joined: 01 July 2005
Posts: 4924

Posted: 22 August 2005 at 8:32pm | IP Logged
I think revenge is mostly filmy , but its very difficult to forgive and forget , ...and then move on !! You harbour anger , hurt , disbelief ,shattered , ...but there isn't much you can do about it ....except those people who feel suing for a unfair alimony will help their emotions in some way !! Confused
Angelic_J IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 19 June 2005
Posts: 13213

Posted: 22 August 2005 at 8:54pm | IP Logged
Take revenge Evil Smile
rat718 Senior Member

Joined: 28 December 2004
Posts: 527

Posted: 22 August 2005 at 9:06pm | IP Logged
I would just leave him, and move on with my life and
kids (if I had any). All my men get only one chance. If they cheat even ONCE, out the door they go. Defnitely in this case it is "My way or the Highway"!because I beleive in "Once a cheater, always a cheater".
ManishaRox IF-Dazzler

Joined: 22 March 2005
Posts: 2610

Posted: 23 August 2005 at 3:11am | IP Logged
I wouldn't be able to take revenge as he had been my hubby/boyfriend once but, the point of forgivness wouldn't take place. I wouldn't be able to forgive someone who betrayed me for someone else and it can neither be his fault entirley if you left a distance in your relationship it's a bit obvious another woman might come into his life. The relationship you should have shouldn't have a distance and should have trust,care and respect so the hubby/boyfriend doesn't have a chance to do all of these things. However, if this ever happened I would definintley move on because there is no point being stuck onto a relaionship which will never exist. That relationship was probably never meant to be and whatever happens, happens for our benifit. As for our pain that will heal with time!
uma_shanmugam Senior Member

Joined: 16 August 2005
Posts: 381

Posted: 23 August 2005 at 11:48pm | IP Logged
Facts would feel to kill them Embarrassed But the reality can't do it at all. If we love them deeply, then would set them free for their good. Forgiving takes time.. as wounds take time to heel na Smile Forgeting? Only time can answer it then.
Groovychick IF-Rockerz

Joined: 11 July 2005
Posts: 8418

Posted: 24 August 2005 at 10:41am | IP Logged
i would b angry at that person 4 a long tym but slowly i would learn 2 carry on with lyf...lyf doesn't moves on

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