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yes even I felt that was very immature of Simran...

OK I have also posted similar in another post but I though this is relavant to the whole confusion between Abhi, Neha and Simran...

neha knew what she got into. But then Simran pushed it too. So neha always felt that abhi liked Simran. Simran did not respond so much then. She kept her distance and she encouraged neha and abhi's relationship.

I think simran had her ego holding on to her, which is fair...but if she really loved him and cared for him so much then she should have put her ego aside and gone ahead to speak atleast once for astha's sake. She did not do that. Abhi was hesitant because he did not want to hurt simran's feelings again and loose her friendship too.

Neha's mom asked the direct question to simran and simran had an ooportunity to reaveal her feelings to a woman atleast. She did not even sound confused, she was more confirmed that she did not have feelings for abhi. After all this, neha's mom, abhi's parents, abhi, simran everyone convinced Neha and that is when she really accepted the proposal. she probably expected less of Simran's involvement.

Neha would have been OK too if simran had maintained her distance. She always convinced herself that it was OK with the friendship. But how can one be so quite even after seeing simran getting so desperate with  her feelings on Neha's bed. Simran just proved that she is not over with her feelings, which Neha was never confirmed with all this time. What can she do know...she can not step back...neha loves abhi truely and even if she wanted to step back...will simran agree or abhi agree...I don't think so...

 

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i would not say she is ruining everyone's life...I think she needs to control on her emotions that may affect someone else's life.
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             Simran is no way ruining anyone else's life.She is rather trying to make everyone else's life happy,even at the cost of her own happiness.Her mistake is,this time she has done more than her human emotions can take.

          I've posted this at another place but it's relevant here too so I'll post it again.

         Both Simran and Neha are strong and basically very nice.But I feel Neha's failure of being a good human being is more than Simran's.

         Simran's actions are indicative of her emotional despair which is largely borne out of a major flaw of her character from the very beginning,her stubborness.This lead to her emotional despair but not selfishness.She never listened to Anandi or anyone else when they warned her against kiran and Abhi.She went on trusting Abhi because for her it was right.Inspite of everything that Urmilla did,she forgave her because she thought it was right.And she expected the same of Manas.Now she expects Manas to forgive Urmilla & get back to her because she thinks that is right.Her stubborness again refuses to see any other POV. Deep inside she doesn't want anything to happen to Abhi & Neha's marriage ( evident from her outburst when she saw Abhi giving her credit on tv interview instead of neha) but her stubborness again refuses to pay heed to the advise of her best friend that she is actually interfering and rather takes it to be an unfair accusation.She also refuses to accept that she is unable to get over Abhi & move on.However,all this do not make her bad,just emotionally ravaged. 

             Simran is wrong in not being able to overcome her emotional turmoil.But then the suffering she has gone through is simply monumental.She lost her mother,her sister,saw her younger sister become a widow,lost her husband for whom she incurred the wrath of the whole world to another woman and saw him take her for a complete ride,lost her marriage,lost her sister in law and even got blamed for it,had acids thrown at her,had her hospital burnt down,and then found her long lost friend and first love only to know he too had not been truthful to her not to mention that first time around she got cheated she had a nervous breakdown and second time around she almost lost her life.All this in just a space of 4 years.     

                 A repentent Abhi's emotional attatchment to Simran is understandable.But compared to Simran,Neha hardly went through anything other than her mother's mental instability which again thanks to Simran got rectified.That way Neha has much more to thank Simran for than she is ready to credit.One selfless gesture when she at least knew of Abhi's devotion could have been at least an effort on her part  to get him and Simran together,if nothing else than for Abhi & Astha's sake.That becomes more glaring and repulsive because basically she is a nice girl and hence expectations of selfless attitude increase manifold.So compared to Simran,Neha's eagerness to get what she wants at any cost discounting everything else does look very selfish as well as grossly self centred.    She is in fact doing everything to make herself happy....... even bringing Astha over was not a gesture to bring father - daughter together but rather was to make Abhi happy so he would not become estranged from her ................ hence her actions day by day are becoming more and more selfish designed to fullfill her own happiness and no one else.  

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 Clap No one can analyse better than u.

      Simran is being potreyed as a woman who is very good but has normal faults.She is an achiever but also wants happiness and love which eludes her always.Itis normal to feel bad and also miss that love.Neha is self centred and only cares for what she wants.She is not even caring for Astha.Even after Simran did so much for her mother and even got Abhi & her married. Being jealous is OK but she is too much.She is becoming so greedy & irritating.What did she think Simran will vanish with Astha after marriage?

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 ............. OH GOD THEY SHOULD END THE SHOW.......

    



Edited by zindagi - 03 January 2005 at 1:29am
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how abt that abhimanyu hey? 

THE SIMRAN and Neha after him, and Kiran also had feelings for him (prob still does-altho this has been taken control of by anil)....

Another point that could be v.important to the story is somoehting that keeps being overlooked nowadays on these boards: the possibility that neha and simran are half-sisters due to simrans dad's infidelities. no concrete proof yet, but it keeps looking that way to me.... so that would have to be sorted out before anybody else dies.... (aka the current mrs. abhi saxena)....

just a  few points to ponder over that i thot i'd mention....

 

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