Originally posted by Gracella
Nice topic Mahi!
Thank you, Gracy, and thanks for replying!
Well for em the best example of someone who only thinks about someone else's happiness all the time by even killing his own wants/needs, is my fav character on television, Anurag Basu from Kzk! Aisa sacha aashique kya real life hota hai.. seriously i don't think so..no one can be so Sacrificing and Mahaan! But i guess kissi ne sach kahaan hai Pyaar qurbani hai..so yeah maybe it's possible
Totally agree here, true love is sacrifice. For me, true love is going above and beyond yourself to give happiness to someone you love. Love is a true and pure feeling that is so misused these days. "I love you but I can't trust you much," "I love you but I can't do this much for you" and on and on. Is that love? NO!
anyways coming back to ur points.. i think in movies/television they bring us to a virtual world..where everyone is not real at all..okay yeah some points can be true for sure.. but all the fighting for ur love, getting ur love, sacrificing for ur love etc are really just to make us, viewers dream about what could happen etc...and what we see.. we would like to get in our real lives too.. right? okay and i mean good things then..not the insults etc what Vidya gets everytime...in BMTD
Yeah, you're right in that, Love and the characters are so glorified on screen that we barely get to see people like that in real life. But besides the filmy expression of love, the love itself shouldn't have different meanings in virtual and real life, should it? I mean standing for your love in rain all night is expression of love and all people may not be able to do that. But true love is partly willingness to sacrifice your happiness and even your life for the person you love. But if people can't do that, then is it truly true love?
Last night i saw LCMD.. and i was so surprised..see that's also one thing what's really so unrealistic.. Abhisekh tells rani he already knew about her being a callgirl and he was ready to accept her..coz he really loved her...unconditionally.. all fine and set, but seriously.... where in this world will you find any guy who will accept you as simple as that??
Exactly! Where would you find a guy like that? Here, people are ready to accept each other if you look beautiful, if you money. But who in this world would accept you with all your shortcomings and sorrows?
I believe that true love exists in real life too.. but true love as they portray in movies/tv soaps.. NOT really!! At least i haven't seen such filmi couples
As I explained above for me true love is loving someone to an extent that you'd be willing to do anything for them. Love cannot be just going out with someone and giving them a few gifts. It's much more meaningful than that... That's why I don't believe that true love exists today just because of the way no one really believes in true love.
i hope i did make any sense
Yes, of course, you did and thank you for your views!