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Posted: 26 September 2007 at 10:06am | IP Logged

Hello guys!!! i have been dealing with this situation and see no solution, so asking for help and your advice. My best friend got married (arranged) but i get this feeling that his wife does not like me at all. She has this stupid rule that she will not talk to her friends and he should also not talk to his friends when they are together -  so basically evenings and weekends and holidays. So we can only talk, if possible only when we are in the office. I don't like snooping around. I mean its not exactly snooping around as she know we talk, but still i find it very weird. I miss talking to my best friend. We share a really good rapport but now we cannot talk. I mean i understand that now that he is married we cannot talk whenever we want. But i don't like or understand that i cannot call him or he cannot call me atleast sometimes. I have been to their house as well and they have come to mine as well, but still his wife is nice only on the surface and never friendly nor does she try to be, even though i have tried hundred of time to extend my friendly hand towards her.

What should i do? I am going through a rough patch in my life and don't want to loose my friend as i recently have lost one really good friend.

Please help!!!

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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 12:59am | IP Logged
wel am totally duh-uh abt dese cases...newayz i guess u shud tok wid ur frnd abt it n clear it...
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 8:05pm | IP Logged

I understand that u don't wana lose your friend but also u have to respect his feelings. If he loves his wife to such an extend that hes willing to hide around the place and meet his friends, then theres noting u can do unless he ask for help.

I can surely tell u one thing! it sounds as if his wife is insecure. just be careful.

 

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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 8:42am | IP Logged
thank u guys...i know yaar he is married but have u ever heard that after marriage ppl stop talking or rather not allowed to talk to their friends?
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Thank u guys for all ur help :)
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