Joined: 08 August 2007
but it more sound like " Aaap ki badmashion ke ye naye andaaz hain .. aap ki aankhon main kuch mahke hoye say khwab hain"
One of my all time fav. songs.
I even address youngsters as 'Aap' if they are strangers. I only use 'tum' when I feel closer to them like good friends and relatives. I use 'Tu' for tapori language act like on this forum with Raunaqwa and Munnabhai (Bunbutt).
I agee with you .even in school days, to my close friends I never use 'tu'= 'Nee' in malayalam.". I use that only to my younger brothers, and our kids. To strangers only Aap= Thangal (in malayalam )and very rarely 'tum= Ningal'. But when I get angry also I use Thangal= Aap to the other person..
To me interact with a person in good mood is tum, in which equal repect between both parties.
From where a person hailing from is very much important, if constant interaction is necessary between the two persons. Otherwise, if it is a casual meeting ,no need of it, becuase today even between collegues no deep rooted friendship.
Joined: 18 January 2006
Can you make assumptions / mind set on person's individuality/personality based on which region/part/county/country he/she hails from?
Example - No offense please, like Delhites use "APP" addressing people, not necessarily they respect you but its out of habit, on the contrary a Bombaite will say "Tu" not necessarily he/she disrespects you. More examples follow based on responses
Regional influences plus family/khandani mannerisms plus education (academic or otherwise) contribute a lot to how one interacts with others. One can see world of difference in how Rakhi Sawant and Kashmira carried themselves on BB vs Shilpa Shetty on BB. there was a lot of Tu's with RS and KS on Big Boss.
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