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Posted: 13 September 2007 at 12:11pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by lighthouse

Originally posted by JhoomBJhoom

Do you believe that there should be everything open between husband and wife for a successful marriage?  Sometime too much openness creates problems also. 

 Secrets are not possible as the female species can never keep a secret..Wink

 Having said that I agree with Raj that every lil detail does not have to be shared plus who has time to trade daily hum drum details when both are so busy with work/home/kids etc?.  Maintaining individuality is a challenge but must be done for the sake of sanity and appeal. One must be an individual first and then a spouse.  Over all trust is the most important aspect of a marriage and it is unhealthy if a partner needs to know everything one does or talks to. . As long as the common goal of spending life together is not distorted , details are just not that important which can create unnecassary suspicions..  Some husbands like to keep tabs on finances upto the last penny that wife spends and some wives keep tabs on his spending, phonecalls/emails. I feel after being thru this sort of rigidity during teenage years with parents and feeling untrustworthy , it is not a good idea to put your life partner thru the same thing imo. Besides a happy person makes a happy partner..!!!!Tongue

These things are happening in this world, around us.Eventhough we are bosting a lot of these educated well placed women are treated meanly by husbands, most of them can't buy  even a saree  with out the permission of husband. that is male domination. 

Yes it is correct, a happy person make a happy pertner.



Edited by nitasuni - 13 September 2007 at 12:14pm
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Posted: 13 September 2007 at 1:50pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nitasuni

Originally posted by lighthouse

Originally posted by JhoomBJhoom

Do you believe that there should be everything open between husband and wife for a successful marriage?  Sometime too much openness creates problems also. 

 Secrets are not possible as the female species can never keep a secret..Wink

 Having said that I agree with Raj that every lil detail does not have to be shared plus who has time to trade daily hum drum details when both are so busy with work/home/kids etc?.  Maintaining individuality is a challenge but must be done for the sake of sanity and appeal. One must be an individual first and then a spouse.  Over all trust is the most important aspect of a marriage and it is unhealthy if a partner needs to know everything one does or talks to. . As long as the common goal of spending life together is not distorted , details are just not that important which can create unnecassary suspicions..  Some husbands like to keep tabs on finances upto the last penny that wife spends and some wives keep tabs on his spending, phonecalls/emails. I feel after being thru this sort of rigidity during teenage years with parents and feeling untrustworthy , it is not a good idea to put your life partner thru the same thing imo. Besides a happy person makes a happy partner..!!!!Tongue

These things are happening in this world, around us.Eventhough we are bosting a lot of these educated well placed women are treated meanly by husbands, most of them can't buy  even a saree  with out the permission of husband. that is male domination. 

Yes it is correct, a happy person make a happy pertner.

In this world, wow ... do you really think today's women go thru this, I doubt.

Agreed with LH on Happy person makes a happy partner.Smile

 

 

 

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Posted: 14 September 2007 at 9:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by raj5000

Originally posted by nitasuni

Originally posted by lighthouse

Originally posted by JhoomBJhoom

Do you believe that there should be everything open between husband and wife for a successful marriage?  Sometime too much openness creates problems also. 

 Secrets are not possible as the female species can never keep a secret..Wink

 Having said that I agree with Raj that every lil detail does not have to be shared plus who has time to trade daily hum drum details when both are so busy with work/home/kids etc?.  Maintaining individuality is a challenge but must be done for the sake of sanity and appeal. One must be an individual first and then a spouse.  Over all trust is the most important aspect of a marriage and it is unhealthy if a partner needs to know everything one does or talks to. . As long as the common goal of spending life together is not distorted , details are just not that important which can create unnecassary suspicions..  Some husbands like to keep tabs on finances upto the last penny that wife spends and some wives keep tabs on his spending, phonecalls/emails. I feel after being thru this sort of rigidity during teenage years with parents and feeling untrustworthy , it is not a good idea to put your life partner thru the same thing imo. Besides a happy person makes a happy partner..!!!!Tongue

These things are happening in this world, around us.Eventhough we are bosting a lot of these educated well placed women are treated meanly by husbands, most of them can't buy  even a saree  with out the permission of husband. that is male domination. 

Yes it is correct, a happy person make a happy pertner.

In this world, wow ... do you really think today's women go thru this, I doubt.

Agreed with LH on Happy person makes a happy partner.Smile

 

 

 

Personally know more than 4 couple, one of the girl is very young, educated well employed..



Edited by nitasuni - 14 September 2007 at 9:25am

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