Posted: 11 September 2007 at 10:18pm | IP Logged
ove before marriage is just a nice word to hide or camouflage your misdeed, flirt or sin.
Actual test to check true love, is starts after marriage when two
person start their practical life because love is not business nor its
only name of entertainment nor it happen only for few weeks or months
€person who walk with you support you in your blue days as well as in
golden days with heart and soul are actually loves you.
Someone who interested in touching you spending time with you
before marriage is not sincere with you or not truly loving you because
if he loves you he will sure respect you and worried for your repute
and never want to do or perform any such acts which cause offense or
disrespect for you.
What happening right now are most people trying to follow western
culture where there is no respect of wife /girl €.girl is just like a
football sometime in Mr. A hands sometimes in Mr. B hands this chain
starts from her very early golden age and ends at her dark age there is
no concept of family in west.
Girl friends boyfriends are now essential part/time passing
activity of our generation one who dose not has gf/bf are suppose to be
poor or backward people of the society its become an abuse if one
don€™t have bf or gf ,now girls and boys go educational institute just
to meet or make fool their so called spouse . Girls who already
listened so many flirt story are trusting in her bf that may be one day
he will accept her as a wife and make her his respect their answer is
all man are not flirt but it€™s a Big stupidity of her but even then
they are doing all such activities many also adopt wrong way and miss
used by her bf, they always give them different types of excuses like
let me stand on my feet€™s then I€˜ll talk with my parents and so
Instead of doing affairs or making bf and use as a tissue paper and
become black listed and get hurt It€™s much better to be sited at your
parent€™s home and wait for right one to come no matter early or late
what matter is your respect /repute which has to be saved.
It€™s my sincere message for both boys and girls that yes there
should be your personal likeness and willing is must but one should
chose his / her life partner through our old tradition (means in
presence and willing of their parents) rather than to make friend then
affair then dating then marriage by miracle such type of marriages are
not long lasting first of all mostly affairs ends up before marriage
and girl got stamp that she had a affair she is no more clean.