Posted: 10 September 2007 at 11:12pm | IP Logged
Frankly speaking flirting is an art and you need special skills to
master it. You do not have to be some beauty queen or a celebrity to
make guys fall for you and go gaga over you. All you need is your
gorgeous smile and few guaranteed flirting tips like the ones you'll
find below to attract the opposite sex.
Rule 1 # Eyes have it all:
Lock eyes with the person you're flirting with for a full five to six
seconds, then smile and drop your gaze. Please don't stare at him and
make him feel embarrassed. Just give him a soft smoldering look and
look away. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute
period. This way you will make him know that you are interested and
Rule 2 # Smile:
Smiling is absolutely the most effective tool in your flirting toolbox.
Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most
important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and
approachable) is to smile.
Rule 3 # Expose your neck:
One of the most winning flirting techniques a woman can use is the
exposure of her neck. This can be done with a head tilt to one side,
the classic hair flip or the over-the-shoulder glance. According to
body language experts this asymmetrical position attracts attention,
exposes your neck, and makes a woman very attractive and sexy. The
over-the-shoulder move also sends a signal to your target that he is
worth a second look.
Rule 4 # Lip Service:
Both men and women are subconsciously attracted to red, moist lips
because they signal youth, sex and fertility. Always wear a red
lipstick which not only gives your lips that youthful colour, but also
makes your smile more visible and your teeth whiter. A super-shiny lip
gloss can also give you an advantage, making your lips look moist and
Rule 5 # Focus, Focus, Focus:
Once you and your flirting target have started talking, use these tips
to deepen the attraction. First, smile and maintain eye contact as you
are speaking, and focus all of your attention on what he is saying. If
you aren't listening then that shows that you are not interested.
Smiling and laughing are crucial here - it's the quickest, easiest way
to put another person at ease and make a connection. Finally, another
effective flirting technique is low-level touching such as brushing the
shoulder or elbow.
"We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make
mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take
while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all.
If you judge people, you have no time to love them". -- Mother Teresa