Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships


Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships
Love, Friendship, Dating & Relationships

POTW: Love Ruins Friendship

~Anji~ Goldie

Joined: 27 January 2005
Posts: 1599

Posted: 21 August 2007 at 6:41pm | IP Logged

Hello everyone...

The poem we r gonna discuss this week is a poem called Love Ruins friendship which is a poem written by myself...


Love Ruins friendship

I knew him when we were kids

We used to always play

Then the time came when he had to leave

I wanted him to stay

He came up to me to say goodbye

I looked into his eyes

I could see the tears coming

I remembered the good old times

I sat and thought to myself

Why I lost a friend

Does this always happen to me

Why did everything end

After many years I also moved

And he added me on MSN

I talked to him and realized

We could be friends again

After sometime I noticed

That the relationship

was a little more

than just friendship

So I decide to let him know

For me it was very tough

I called him and said to him

That we were both in love

At first he didn't say anything

Then he said he feels that too

We were both quiet for a while

And then he said I love you

That day I can never forget

It looked like the world was smiling

And then we always talked

But was it the right timing?

He then changed a little bit

And he wasn't the same person

I decided to break the relationship

But it made everything worsen?

After that we tried to be just friends

But it didn't work at all

Because every time we tried to talk

We remembered that one call

Will we get together again?

I really don't know

I really hope everything works out

I hope things just flow

So everyone please listen to me

Don't ruin what you have

Because now I feel that I should've known

                           That friendship was enough

- Anji

Do u feel that love ruins friendship?

Are u in love with someone whom u have known since childhood?

If u loved ur best friend would u not tell them how u feel coz u would be afraid that it would ruin what u a;ready have?

Anything else u would like to add about this poem.


Have fun,


L&F Dev. Team


Edited by ~Anji~ - 21 August 2007 at 6:45pm

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

mini k4lyf

Sujalthegreat Goldie

Joined: 13 January 2005
Posts: 1300

Posted: 21 August 2007 at 6:52pm | IP Logged
Really nice and touching. Smile Tongue Wink

For some people love does ruin friendship but for some it doesn't. It depends on the people involved.

Well done. Clap

Edited by Sujalthegreat - 21 August 2007 at 6:52pm
-Pinky- IF-Dazzler

Joined: 02 July 2006
Posts: 4074

Posted: 21 August 2007 at 7:27pm | IP Logged
no i don't think that love ruins friendship.maybe in some case, yea, but most of the time it should make friendship even i haven't fallen in "love" with my friend but if i ever do then i'd rather tell him
and rlyy touching poem anji..good job Clap Clap
cool_pooja IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 22 January 2005
Posts: 12751

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:47am | IP Logged
Awesome poem! Big smile

I dont think love really ruins the friendship. As said before, it depends on the people involved. For me, it ruined my friendship in the 1st month, but now we are really good friends again! Big smile So for me, it did not ruin my friendship instead it taught me many things! Embarrassed
prithvi lover IF-Rockerz
prithvi lover
prithvi lover

Joined: 16 November 2006
Posts: 6963

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 4:58am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ~Anji~

Do u feel that love ruins friendship? does ive had the experience!

Are u in love with someone whom u have known since childhood?-yes my best friend....and i broke my 11yr friendship wid him...

If u loved ur best friend would u not tell them how u feel coz u would be afraid that it would ruin what u a;ready have? yes.....but at the same time no...cuz who noes! he might feel the same way too u noe!

Anything else u would like to add about this poem.-no actually...its a perfect poem!

anju101 IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 27 December 2005
Posts: 14319

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 8:34am | IP Logged
Awesome poem!! Clap Clap

I think in some cases love does ruin friendship because people are not able to get over certain things...

sometimes people are fine after they realize they don't wanna be with each other and friendship turns out to be a better option...

if i loved my best friend, it would tell him if i got the sign from him that he liked me as well...

if not then i wouldn't tell him ...
SweetAngel18 IF-Dazzler

Joined: 01 September 2006
Posts: 2480

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 5:34pm | IP Logged

If you think this is an error please Contact us.
Pori IF-Dazzler

Joined: 24 February 2006
Posts: 2610

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 9:57pm | IP Logged
Awsome Poem
well I think Love does ruin frndship cuz either u reject the person cuz u never thought of him in tht wai or wen u start goin gout with him/her, either of thm wud chng and start actin possessive and more secured tht u wudnt like,, and thr are other things in a relationship tht might also mess tht frndship

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
Why love changes when the one u love becomes bad

Author: liril   Replies: 5   Views: 19662

liril 5 19662 13 May 2009 at 1:23pm by flashykush
Some love lasts a lifetime.True love lasts forever

Author: RAJAYE_HIND   Replies: 1   Views: 26980

RAJAYE_HIND 1 26980 11 September 2008 at 9:17am by dream
How many times in a day u say I love u to ur love

Author: RAJAYE_HIND   Replies: 6   Views: 23518

RAJAYE_HIND 6 23518 24 August 2008 at 5:30pm by xox.iloveyou
Virtual Friendship & Real Friendship

2 3 4 5 6 7

Author: Too_Much   Replies: 50   Views: 13463

Too_Much 50 13463 06 May 2008 at 7:20am by legallyzoya
POTW: From friend to love and back again

Author: cool_pooja   Replies: 3   Views: 777

cool_pooja 3 777 28 January 2008 at 6:17pm by ~Anji~

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels

  • Please login to check your Last 10 Topics posted

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index