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atom101 Newbie

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Posted: 19 July 2007 at 9:05pm | IP Logged

there is this neighbour who has been stalking me for a while now.....once he continously came to my house to make me apply for a job at his company.....just to get rid of him, i applied.....and i even forgot about it for a while....but then i got a call from the that point in time, i needed a job because i had badly injured myself in the current the first, he used to come by and try to talk to me often at work......i was trying to be nice.....then he started to follow me home and all....still i tolerated......but then finally he dropped the bomb and asked me out......and even after telling NO, look at the nerve of this person.....he becomes very emotional and says i hope u change ur mind and i will make sure u do........this is starting to creep me tho he is literally Freaking me out!! he waits around the corner for me to he can join me while going home.....tries to sneak into my office when my coworkers are not there and all.......

dont get me wrong......but feel disgusted.....and always wishing this person just vanishes..........

how do I deal with this situation?? please help.......

and most important part of the equation, I am gonna be quitting the job in a month annyways as I will be starting schooll.....this is just a temporary thing....but turning out to be a BIG headache!!

iluvDharmesh IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 19 July 2007 at 9:28pm | IP Logged
This used to happen to me but on the internet. I think you should quit that job and tell a friend about it. You could try getting someother place to stay because there was a similer story of a girl who came from work and a guy would wait for her. One day she came and he grabed her and murdered her. I feel really worried about you right now.

If you don't have anyone to stay me they will helped. They even helped me 2 weeks back with the same problem just a bit different.

I hope i helped you hun. Smile

*Dakoo_Minzy* IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 10:06am | IP Logged
What i feel to give as an advice is that,even though i am too young but my advice sould help u!!!!!! Tongue
Do u have a friend there i mean a close friend or a best friend!!!!!If u trust any othr boy r girl n he/she is ur frnd confide in her all th matter!!!!and if possible try going home with tat person.... Embarrassed
i kno th guy is very irritating Ouch Ouch
just hope u just leave frm th job th soooner Embarrassed
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 10:20am | IP Logged

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Anoli IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 1:34pm | IP Logged

Oh well, i guess you shud just ignore him!

You will be quitting the job so i guess ignoring him is the best thing!!

Try to tell ur parents abt it & if it doesnt help then i guess u shud complain to policce!!!Embarrassed

Take Care



cool_pooja IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 1:39pm | IP Logged
Wrong section. Topic should be posted in Advice Corner. I think the modz will move it there. Smile
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Posted: 20 July 2007 at 2:47pm | IP Logged
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rockstallion Goldie

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Posted: 21 July 2007 at 2:33am | IP Logged
i always believe in sorting things out by talking. tell ur parents or elder siblings first ...u guyz can speak to him he is emotional and behaving weak .....police and complaint would make him stubborn so talk it out and say u like to be frenz but have to leave job and slowly cut off.....

i know this is slow steady solution ..but certainly harsh and quick judjements might not solve prob

good luck Smile

Edited by rockstallion - 21 July 2007 at 2:34am

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