running away from home (Page 5)

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I second that!!!!

How does killing innocent bring Honour to your community????

Sometime back had read in midday an article that too in Mumbai only in some trader community, a girl was married into one family who was not from their community, both sets of parents were agreed and married their kids but the boy community people stop dealing with that family in business because they had allowed to marry their son to a girl outside their community.  

When will this type of honour killings or honour ostracizing stop just because a girl or boy marries outside ones community or caste or creed?

Most of the times the society creates problems. Many a times because of societys attitude parents fear to grant permission. log kya khahenge... as if those people come in your hour of need.

Edited by sweta01 - 04 July 2007 at 1:29am

The main prob is Ek baar shaadi kya thoo life time uske saat hi chalna hey ...Relationship value is high,so parents check all things about their daughter or son's future...I think parents/Society should accept a adult dicision about marriage.


A lady wear wedding ring on wrong finger, so somebody inform her so she replay 'i wear wedding wrong finger,cos i marry a worng guy'

they prefer killing their blood rather then see them happy wth their love?
what type of belive is this...

good idea, i will include that along with the list of samaj coming and consuming food and then complaining

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Imagine my shock when I read QTdi's comments Well, if nothing else this topic certainly spawned an interesting new nickname for you di: QTip

Will my di's, maasis, etc. please let me know if first running away, then finding a suitable guy and then getting married would be okay Woh kya hai na, more than objecting to the guy I marry, I'm pretty darned sure my parents will object to my returning to India

Looks like those with experience and understanding have covered this issue rather well. Still, I'll give my two cents - if neccesity demands it (unreasonable demands or objections from one or both sets of parents, social confines acting as prejudiced and backwards obstacles, etc.) running away may well be the better of options. However, my take on love and marriage is rather on the heavy side. For me, both are everlasting and altogether too sacred to be broken ever. You better be sure that he/she's the one you want to be with no matter what... because the truth of it is, you're leaving behind your entire life, history and quite a few relationships for the sake of one person (well two really, but him/her especially).

Interesting to note that the females flocked to this topic

QTdi.. you know you're invited to the sangeet + entire marriage ceremony na.. you too maasi. Imagine the shock my parents will get when some 20-30 odd extra guests arrive... guests they've never met or even heard of

ps... The Saathiya version seemed just right - didi was present, friends were present and a temple, priest and shaadi ka joda were there... sounds like the right combination for the perfect run-away, yet semi-traditional shaadi

Edited by simtara - 04 July 2007 at 8:41pm

^^^sub log qt ka mazak udana band karo, ek tip kya de diya tum logo ko bus tip pe tip maang rahe ho i hope all of you asking for tips are not kids

simtara dont forget to invite me to your wedding, i can play the role of worst host and i am good at it

Edited by raunaq - 04 July 2007 at 8:47pm