Need Help

I have a problem and i know i am totally wrong.

I got married 7 monts ago and i knew him for 4 years before we got married.

My husband is a good man doesn't get mad at all, but i get angry very easily at little things.  

I don't know what to do. After getting mad at him i realize that i made mistake and i do ask for forgiveness.I want tto stop getting mad at him oveer little like him late coming home in once a while, or not giving me enough attention. I tell myself that i wont get mad at him next time but i end up eoing it again. I love him so much, don't want to loose him with my stupidness.

Please help.

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I have a problem and i know i am totally wrong.

I got married 7 monts ago and i knew him for 4 years before we got married.

My husband is a good man doesn't get mad at all, but i get angry very easily at little things.

I don't know what to do. After getting mad at him i realize that i made mistake and i do ask for forgiveness.I want tto stop getting mad at him oveer little like him late coming home in once a while, or not giving me enough attention. I tell myself that i wont get mad at him next time but i end up eoing it again. I love him so much, don't want to loose him with my stupidness.

Please help.

if u have anger problems then just try to relax when ur
husband comes home. when ur husband comes home late don,t get angry at him just stay quiet for a moment then talk
because it will help u less ur anger. if u think u are getting anry just say om three times it helps me and i hope it helps u too.

Firstly,you two are perfect for each other...like they say "Opposites attrat" 😳 😳

*If u feel you're going to get mad,walk out of the room and relax in a quiet room

*Try to think things through in the other person's perspectives...that usually helps 😉

*Try to ask yourself why you're getting mad...is it something that you know you'll regret later?If it is,try to control it

*Count to ten,or if you'll really steaming maybe even counting to one-hundred might help 😉 Edited by Asha004 - 16 years ago

anger is one problem even i cant control and im worse...i end up shouting if im mad! but what i do is i just press down the anger inside me by either counting numbers till my anger subsides...or just pray something that will help to calm you down!

Thanks very mcuh friends and i will the ur ideas. 😊

when you are angry, go to ur room and shut the door n sit there and listen to music untill ur calm down then talk to ur hubby.
never talk to ppl when ur angry cuz when ur angry u tend to say thing which u would never say otherwise.

very good advice Javvi and Pinki, i just hope it to work cuz i can't afford to loose him

seems like you're just insecure.