Joined: 22 May 2007
if one thing is to be chosen family or love
reason family is afraid of society and the reason is that the girl i love is divorcee with son and over age.
but we are in love fo last 7 yrs. having relation and good tuning. we can't imaging living away from each other. her name is priya.
but my family members are not accpting this proposal. they want me to marry a girl of their choice.
i love both. if i don't marry as per my family i think they will die of shock. they will not bear the shock. i am unable to decide what to do.
priyas family member accepted my proposal.
but i had to leave my family. can't decide
there is huge tension in my family.
second thing if i don't marry as per my parents choice my father will scold priya and abuse her alot in front of others. he will aso reach priyas father and also scold him saying vulgar word to priya and her father. i m also afraid of all these things . becoz the environment in priyas family is very sobar.
just frightend of all these things.
if i don't marry with the girl of my parents choice it will be very difficult for priya to move in socity. what will happen to son
i mean to say my father will just scold her in all relatives and known persons not more than that.
priya is ready she says that all these things are normal once u mary me all thses things will stop. and no problem if we are togather this will vanish after som time.
but i cant leave my family also and give tension to my mother and father.
plz tell me what to decide
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I think you should try talking to your family again...And explain to them that at the end of the day it is your life...And you can't let fear of soceity spoil your life. Your family don't seem to have any strong reasons...Age difference, divorcee...I see where they're coming from but these kind of things are not looked down upon in todays soceity.
At the end of the day it is your life...So I think you should do what will be best for yourself and not others.
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