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NEW SCENES IN THE TITLE SONG!

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Posted: 08 December 2004 at 9:39pm | IP Logged
There were several new scenes in the title song shown today, and we have a good idea of things to come. One important scene was Leela shown in front of a typewriter in an office. Did anyone else notice the scene where Leela runs away by jumping over the wall? More scenes with M&S too.

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Posted: 10 December 2004 at 3:40pm | IP Logged
yes, i noticed those scenes. Atleast leela will beocme independent. Tamil serials are so boring and always want to show women dependent and crying. they got to show them bold enough to face the world. some of the hindi serials are really good. Not all OK. I like manavi is tamil. Anyone else watch that serial.
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Posted: 11 December 2004 at 8:38am | IP Logged

Yes, most Hindi serials are better on showing women as independent (though a few of them go to the other extreme Big smile).

We could even start a thread on this: most people still think a man should be better educated than his wife. I suspect several people in the current generation too subscribe to this view. We had a huge discussion about this at a party last night, and I want to see if people in this board want comments/discussions.



Edited by MettiOli - 11 December 2004 at 10:12am
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Posted: 12 December 2004 at 6:40pm | IP Logged

My take on this.

I have this opinion that a man should be better educated (if not at least same) than the woman. Smile

Sumita Senior Member
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Posted: 13 December 2004 at 10:17am | IP Logged
According to me not necessarily. I think it makes no difference at all. If a man is more educated then we will earn more and support the family and if a women is more educated she will bring in more for the family. But if it is decided that the women is going to be staying home, then the man better be more educated and qualified to support his family. This is my opinion. I have 2 daughters myself. I want them to get the best education possible. And when they decide to marry they can marry either with a person more ecuated or equally qualified or whatever there is no hard and fast rule that a man or women should be more educated.
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Posted: 14 December 2004 at 2:25pm | IP Logged

Thanks.

Sumita - that's exactly what triggered all the discussions at our party. One of the girls at the party mentioned that she was advised by her parents not to let her daughter pursue her M.S - it would be difficult to find a 'suitable' groom! First I couldn't believe that people still think like that. And guess what? some of the people in the room thought that was not actually a bad advice!

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Posted: 14 December 2004 at 11:03pm | IP Logged
Actually I don't agree at all,  my boyfriend is still finishing his undergrad, while I am almost through with my masters. But professionally, he has far more experience than I do. I dunno if he will want to do his masters or no. It doesn't matter to me. Education is certainly important, but I think we Indians use it to evaluate the wrong things. A highly educated guy can be a jerk and a not so educated guy can be an angel. Its all in ur head. My parents don't have any problems with me marrying anyone who has studied less than me. Leading on to the next thing, its not necessary the guy should earn more either, unless u want to be a housewife. If I ever have daughters, I will educate them till they have enough maturity to decide for themselves and not encourage them to marry only guys who are equally or more educated. Like they say in a kannada saying, if the guy turns out to be bad, can you pickle his education and store it for a better day?
Sumita Senior Member
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Posted: 15 December 2004 at 4:23pm | IP Logged
Well I understand what you are wanting to convey. And you are absolutely right as far as your boyfreind education and your education comparison goes, but please education is necessary in this growing economy and will give you the right and good paid job. I personally have experienced it. Though I was the only one in the whole department here in US with an accounting degree from Bombay, I didn't get promoted because I didn't have an US degree though I had much more experience than people who got promoted. Or else, luck has to be with you. I am with you as to who should be more educated, it really doesn't matter but education pays is for sure. Now that doesn't mean only education pays, but education will pay for sure. I have 2 daughters myself and will definitely allow them to choose whoever they want, but if that guy is well educated then even after loosing jobs, he can find one and come up in his career in this enocnomy. Those are old days where you will get promoted only because you have experience. You will get pay hike every year but to move up in career that degree stamp is required. According to me either one man or women in a family has to be educated enough to support.

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