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~*MaNnU*~ Senior Member
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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 2:44pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

arranged marriages rock Clap Clap LOL

ur on sumethingggLOL


i am not on anyoneLOL

i said some THING....not some ONELOL


oh yea
well i am not on anything except the chairLOL

ohh boyyyyyyyyyyyyLOLLOL
urr douced for lifee mannnLOL

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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 2:45pm | IP Logged
Mannu you seem to be outlawing and banning everything in sight!!! I have a question - do you mean arranged marriages or forced marriages? People do have a choice in arranged marriages, too. Though mine was a love marriage, I did go through the whole rigmarole of "seeing" a girl, and my opinion did matter. I think the expression "forced marriages" would be more appropriate for the kind of scenario you are describing.
Banning, in my opinion, is never a solution. I know of several cases in the UK where it is against the law to force someone to get married, and yet quite a few Asian parents succeed in bypassing the law by taking their children, especially their daughters and marrying them off against their wishes.
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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 3:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

arranged marriages rock Clap Clap LOL

ur on sumethingggLOL


i am not on anyoneLOL

i said some THING....not some ONELOL


oh yea
well i am not on anything except the chairLOL

ohh boyyyyyyyyyyyyLOLLOL
urr douced for lifee mannnLOL


wat is douced?Confused
~*MaNnU*~ Senior Member
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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 3:08pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

Originally posted by ~*MaNnU*~

Originally posted by RonnieK

arranged marriages rock Clap Clap LOL

ur on sumethingggLOL


i am not on anyoneLOL

i said some THING....not some ONELOL


oh yea
well i am not on anything except the chairLOL

ohh boyyyyyyyyyyyyLOLLOL
urr douced for lifee mannnLOL


wat is douced?Confused

doucedd...
meaningg....like meesseddd....orr screwedddLOL

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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 3:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by .:Aphrodite:.

hahaha no way..how else will ugly people and people with no redeeming qualities find their match then?


very bluntly saidClapLOL
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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 4:23pm | IP Logged
Arranged marriages banned?
No, I think it must be different options to choose between.

I'm not indian, but I had an indian boyfriend for 3 years, I moved to london just for him...we had plans til...his family found the right woman
(indian and same caste of course)for him.

His family forced him to get married with "the perfect match" just meet her twice before the weeding...he didn't know her hobbies for example...
Right now I'm ok, but was so sad for me...and for him.

Sandreep is not happy and his parents knew that from the beggining -he told them that he was in love with me-but thy didn't care...he had to carry out his duty...
do u think this is the right way?
Sure he decided, but his parents happiness was more important than his/ours.
In contrast with my history , I had some indian friends married with spanish girls/guys so...yes some choose some dont, but I think arranged marriages must be like an option.
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Posted: 24 April 2007 at 8:04pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by .:Aphrodite:.

hahaha no way..how else will ugly people and people with no redeeming qualities find their match then?

aww, thats mean.

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