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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 6:44am | IP Logged
Originally posted by cool_pooja

Originally posted by raj5000

Q – Does life really changes after marriage?

Yes and to a very big extent. After marriage you have new problems, new happiness, new people. You have to adjust to a completly new surrounding.

 

I liked this response - the part where u mentioned "New Problems" lolss would say additional problems... lols but still people are ready to take them head onBig smile.

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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 7:12am | IP Logged

 In Red.

 

Originally posted by mermaid_QT

Q – Does life really changes after marriage?


 Not much except you have one more person annoying you.. Ask and you will get.. Vows of being together in sickness and in health, in the gym and in the bed. and movies and dining.LOL


* Constant sharing of almost everything (bed, comforter Angry, TVremote ) etc can be very annoying / very cuteee.. depending on the mood. Again watch what you ask for , your wish just might come true...Wink


* If extended family is involved (in-laws / other relatives living together), it can seriously mean thodi khushi, thode gham.. I can see a lot of compromise probably expected there and perhaps big unfavorable changes unless compatible?? yet I also see a strong support system- favorable change?..

Ok be prepared to see your spouse in different avatar ..LOL Diversity in personality..Confused

 

* Familiarity - when you wake up next to the same person EVERYDAY, there is a certain some sweetness on decline.  one has to keep working on it.  It is a BIG CHANGE from being single / dating --> being married.

Again watch what you ask for , your wish just might come true...Wink
 

* One change in your thought process is that u work and  learn to STAY in love.  It is easy most of the tims, but at times, everyone .. even people who eloped!  will ask themselves "what the hell was i thinking!".. 

 Who said you were thinking back then..LOL


Basically, everything is not about U.. it is about BOTH of U, so yes there are some changes.  Charity begins at home..Wink

Q – Why can't individuals maintain the same relation with family friend after marriage?

Lack of an understanding spouse and / or accomodative relatives/ friends
& changed responsibilities and time-committments/ constraints
I see no other reasons and I don't support breaking / substantially changing other relations.. Because your friends are also married and in same situation..Wink

Q – Understand it's a new life but change in life holds same for men and women?

Change happens for both..

Mostly women.. You don't have to answer to your parents anymore and in-laws consider you evil anyway so why bother..Wink



Edited by lighthouse - 21 April 2007 at 7:14am
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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 10:16am | IP Logged
You don't have to answer to your parents anymore and in-laws consider you evil anyway so why bother


ROFL

@ Soumya, Embarrassed ... fine, I will wait. LOLLOL Maybe, I should go find a friend instead. D'oh

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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 10:22am | IP Logged

i dont know if it changes, but it should for the guy at least. how else will the wife be happy? Tongue if he doesn't change, that only means he is still hanging out with his loser buddies and doing his wild thing, sowing all those oats and all. he's still wearing his socks all wrong, his clothes are combinations made in hell, he's still leaving his trash around, he's still not pulling his weight around, he's still keeping that unshaved look. in short, he's still a bum, a work-in-progress, not a finished product. Wink

however, if the woman changes, that's probably a bad thing. that means she has let herself go. she's starting to throw her weight around, and literally. the pounds, the lines show. even aish and rani start to look attractive by comparison Tongue , but she's gonna make sure he cant even watch those movies. Wink the cuteness and the lovey-dovey honey-bun stuff is a thing of the past. then all he has is the booze and the "din dhal jaye raat na jaye" song keeping him company and reminding him of the "way we were". and yes, she's not carrying his garbage out anymore. or taking it. he's gotta clean up those beer bottles himself. poor guy LOL
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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 11:56am | IP Logged
R, wow.. that is sad to hear. I feel bad for ur friend. His wife does not pick up beer bottle after him? How dare she Wink
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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 12:17pm | IP Logged
Yet another great Qs Anshu.

Seems you are getting closer to tieing the knots   Wink Tongue

Yes life changes after marriage. But life changes whether one is married or not. Every stage of life one must change to keep ballance in their lives.

Priorities, friends and social as well as professional commitments change. One must accomodate them and change along with them to keep harmony.

Nothing wrong or inconsiderate about that. IMHO


Edited by Dabulls23 - 21 April 2007 at 12:17pm
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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 12:27pm | IP Logged
From the perspective of a friend/ sister/ brother/ mother -

Friend getting married brings about a lot of changes in your life. You cant call him/ her at the middle of night to discuss something as important as the new shade of lipstick Cry   Friends too busy for all this.

To a sister, brother getting married means bidding good bye to good gifts for life Cry . The purse which would be heavy during Rakhi and birthdays suddenly go empty as Valentines day precedes the birthdays and spouses birthdays precedes Rakhi LOL   and the gifts which was "select what you want" becomes "she thought this is good for you" LOL LOL

To a brother, sibling getting married means no longer being able to pinch his pockets for that extra pocket money LOL   there is never anything in there anyways, its all in Bhabhi's bag anyways

To a mother, it means accepting the fact that the apple of her eye is now the apple of anothers eye and therefore tea, newspapers and moms rantings are now a thing of the past. Its now bed tea, sometimes even the newspapers are neglected LOL LOL LOL

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Posted: 21 April 2007 at 12:29pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by s.priya

From the perspective of a friend/ sister/ brother/ mother -

Friend getting married brings about a lot of changes in your life. You cant call him/ her at the middle of night to discuss something as important as the new shade of lipstick Cry   Friends too busy for all this.

To a sister, brother getting married means bidding good bye to good gifts for life Cry . The purse which would be heavy during Rakhi and birthdays suddenly go empty as Valentines day precedes the birthdays and spouses birthdays precedes Rakhi LOL   and the gifts which was "select what you want" becomes "she thought this is good for you" LOL LOL

To a brother, sibling getting married means no longer being able to pinch his pockets for that extra pocket money LOL   there is never anything in there anyways, its all in Bhabhi's bag anyways

To a mother, it means accepting the fact that the apple of her eye is now the apple of anothers eye and therefore tea, newspapers and moms rantings are now a thing of the past. Its now bed tea, sometimes even the newspapers are neglected LOL LOL LOL

ROFL  Good one Priya Clap LOL

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