Joint family or a Nuclear family - Page 5

.Edited by ani11 - 14 years ago

sarva dokyawarun  gela😕..........plz explain this in simple words 😊

everyone is speaking marathi........i need a marathi teacher quick.........😆..........OK what does that mean in hindi or english ......please😳

in hindi it means"dimaag ke upar se sab kuch nikal gaya"😆and in english it means"everything has gone from above my head like a tangent"😆

Edited by jyoti06 - 17 years ago

Salooni,

Are you saying that work on your problems between the two and not run to parents and as years go by have better chance of surviving??  This kahave does not go with the previous statement. IMO  kahavat means "Bandh muthi sawa lakh ni" which I interprete as Keep it between the parties concerned.  In short shove the problem under the rug or be egyptian to the fact that there is problem.  Am I right?? Correct me if I am wrong 😕 

Pls enlighten us what u mean by this?? 

.Edited by ani11 - 14 years ago

in hindi it means"dimaag ke upar se sab kuch nikal gaya"😆and in english it means"everything has gone from above my head like a tangent"😆

😆😆😆Mandy......those were simple words..believe me.........if u read each word individually u will get their meaning........😆😆.....they are all english words except tolstoyshtically which is egglish😆

Jyoti i have hired u as my marathi teacher...ON the forum........😆😆........thanks Guruji...😳

well Ani then theres a chance i may misguide u😉 because i m bengali😳😆...its just that i stay in mumbai so know a little bit😛

hey ani😆😆................the words r simple but i'm unable to understand the meaning of complete phrase😕..............plz u be my teacherji n explain me plzzzzz😊

i encountered two joint families while on a visit. looking at the family size, i was stunned. i always wondered how would they remember whose kid is whose and how they even function as one whole family. its amazing but at the same time having a joint family might have their own advantages and disadvantages. in joint family you always have to encounter the other members of the family whereas in nuclear family, you can make your decisions yourself. i am not trying to potray joint family system in a bad way. there might be other members who might know how the joint family system works. therefore, the best suggestion would be to angle for your fiances suggestion. talk to him. its better to talk to him before marriage about how you feel about joint family. and then try to seek step what you think is right. your views are valid and then try to weigh his views from his side as well and then both of you make the decision. Edited by raunaq - 17 years ago

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Raunaq, It might seem hard to you. But for people living in that family, unless they are from a Kekta serial (where paternity is always under doubt🤢) they shouldn't have any such problems.
Moreover, these days when parents do not have more than 2 kids usually, I don't think joint families are that big.

I totally agree with DB, nuclear family with joint family within easy reach is the best situation. (not across the street like Marie and Raymond though😉)

yes you are right, i would agree to what qt said. taking example from marie and raymond big no no make sure that the distance should be capable of having one to drive or at least spend money on the bus 😉 Edited by raunaq - 17 years ago

Yeah No reach out and touch someone 😉 😆 Too close for comfort eh  😆