This content was originally posted by: MNMS
Nuclear Family all the way!!
I have seen what can REALLY happen when a person who has lived all his life in a nuclear family.. and then joins a joint family: My sisters..
We are a nuclear family since loooong. And tell you what, its still much more time consuming to understand your parents, your siblings...and most importantly yourself..I really can't imagine how people adjust and get satisfied in a joint family where there is so much 🤢 type of things happening 24/7... 😕 😕 😕
Both my sisters didn't know the working and the gossip & politics & bickering and 🤢 things involved in joint families 😭 ... Very Very very very hard to adjust.. and then the family expects you to tolerate all this non-sense alone. 🤢My sisters did tolerate a hell! Its a huge terrible bargain.. I would NEVER EVER sacrifice myself, my ideologies, my thinking, my decisions and most importantly my Identity for the sake of joint family .. Call me self-centered, Call me westernized, Call me anything!! I don't care. But guys, its simply not worth it! I have seen it for my sisters.. Huge amount of self-sacrifice And i would sincerely advise anyone the same...NOT to go for joing families..Period!
These are my two cents 😊 I hold high respect for the views of other members.. please respect mine 😊
very well said👏i completely agree with u...the main problem of joint family is that every member of the parliament..oops i mean house😉,wants to outdo each other and in this game of one upmanship u loose your own self
and one more problem living in a joint family is that after u start your own family,your in-laws will force u to give more importance to your domestic life...in short leave your job,sit at home and nurture your kids😡thats all they want from a ghar ki bahu ..no matter how modern we become...and as a career-oriented girl ,i will never prefer that
so even i feel nuclear family is the best option but again in nuclear families we hv lots of domestic violence like a husband beating up his wife which can also happen in a joint family but there r people to support u in a joint family which is not the case in a nuclear family,where one has to overcome their problems single-handedly...so i think this confusion in my mind will always continue😕😆
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