just tell her straight up, you wanted to make sure that the next step in your lives was and is an important one and you wanted to start it owith a clean slate and ask her isnt it better that you have told her the truth now rather than later
I think you have got too many an advice for such a small problem....dont take it too seriously man...just tell her the truth....which u already have...now what to worry...just ask her the final question which you are hesitating
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