Originally posted by: Naina_Manam
That's an interesting topic! And yes, I have wondered too since Vijay has created the forum but still we have more girls than guys, ironic naa? ππ
π On a serious note, well, I do think that guys tend not to watch serials than girls do (although of course there are exceptions) See most of the guys I know would either watch sports/discovery/history/news channel or just go out and play sports or just go out with friends all the time.
Most aren't interested in what the saas bahu soaps have to offer today. And those who watch a few serials don't like to sit down and discuss them. You know, one of the weakness I find in boys is the lack of discussion skills π³. So, they just watch it and then not be a part of a forum or they are just silent readers.
i completely agree on that guys only like to watch all news n sports content channels but i do know few people who watch it when they are mums put it on they initially dont approve of it but do get like to watch n i will say IF 's males population has increased more than it was earlier now why is that i feel the main reason is that the new trends which originate from TV has actually influenced thier change in viewership also the introduction of reality shows kbc great indian laughter challenge indian idol etc has brought an increase in both the increase in IF male population n in male viewership
n yes there is a lil lack of discussion skills in men even for a important matter on ur house how many of our own brothers are actually intrested in discussing our lifes or even thiers they simply lisn for 5 mins n catch up with thier psps n mobiles atleast my brothers do that n i have seen many too soo guys who arent intrested in discussing thier own lifes or lifes of the people they care about why will they sit down to discuss about some characters life who actually doesnt exist π
another thing is that a lot of men have a superiority complex so they try n be tough n serials are most of the time women oriented which is one reason that they are not intrested as they feel they are superior n what women do as characters on tv is all crap n also i wud like 2 add guys have this kind of nature almost all of them is that they dunt open up ,be it thier thoughts thier feelings anythin they dont kind of open up to thier thoughts in public now why is that even i dont have an answer for that may be thier ego which is psychological believed to be very strong in men or may be in few thier superioriity complex π
n one last reason cud be men feel this forum is more with female population so they feel left out or different n uncomfortable to put front thier thoughts due to probability of being attacked by a lot of womenπ or may be unacceptence of thier views by women πcoz even today none of the either feel they are equal ther are still majority of men who feel thier suuperior n a lot of women who are gradually being empowered majority who feel they are equal n few who feel they are superior so the high probabilty of contradiction is always there
hmm what do we too increase male population on IF well we can create some intresting forum where men find it intrestinng to be
but personally speaking unless men feel comfortable in presence of majority of women , both treat eachoda with equal respects in thier hearts ,n males actually start treating the serials which prevail today in a different way i dun see the ratio being equal
what i mean by treating the serials in a different way means there is a kind of myth that saas bahu serials or serials having the female lead on cover screen are all women oriented n full of family politics they most of the times but there are situations which give us a positive thought or solution even to males but they ultimately dun watch it (eg yudi's role in kzk qas quite inspiratonal of how he changes for the good)
so in a nutshell until the treatment n point of view is not changed n until these myths are carried forward nothin can change not only at IF in any field of life π
that was my long boring take on this whole topic πhope it was bearable π³π
love
anu
PS: great topic n post butteru
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