How important is baby in a relationship?

good topic anju!

mostly in the movies and tv shows they show that when a couple have a baby...the guy comes back to the girl...but i dont think thats necessary.

sometimes its realization as well...if the guy realizes he has done wrong and been unfair to his wife, then he will want to come back to his wife whethere they have a child or not.

or in some cases when the baharwali ditches the guy, then he mite think of going back to his gharwali

so, a child can be a big helping hand in reviving a relationship but not always.

i hope i made sense!

I agree but sometimes its more for the baby than wife. It could be something to do with the and responsibility and fatherly feeling . And of course guilt always plays a role....want to do the rite thing for his child.

Having a baby doesn't always help a relationship  no matter how much the parents wanted that baby. The love between the two parents should be strong in order for the love for the baby to be strong. If the parents don't get along, they will always see eachothers short comings in the child, thus weakening the realationship even more. How come most divorcees have children? if the baby revives the relationship then how come after having 2 children their relation doesn't seen as it was revived twice?

I'm only in highschool, and this is wut i thought about this topic. So forgive me if you disagree.

nope krazee_gurl..i dont think age matters in opinions like this...its the opinion that matter

and i totally agree with you...in my family i've seen that happen..one of the guys had two daughters...one before divorce and one was born right after divorce..but he never came back to his wife...infact he didnt even apologize ONCE to the wife for ruining her and the two girls' life...the lady supported the children all alone.

obviously, this doesnt happen in every case,,,as i said before...a child can be a big element in reviving the relationship but not always!