Bhavi
Very aptly said, that a choice between responsibility and love is always tough.
Tbh, I would always vouch for love, if children are not involved.
But if kids are involved, I think one must not run away from responsibilities, just cos the easier phase is over.
One gets into a marriage with eyes wide open and running away after years just cos one needs a change or finds satisfaction outside, is downright crass and inhuman.
And what about the woman whose left behind to make ends meet and bring the kids up?
Plus, what example does one sets for the kids? They would always respect the mother for staying put and not running away , leaving behind two small hands that rise to you for affection.
Just my perspective