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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: NepaliStrawbery

See, I am in two positions right now..

In a country such as India where homosexuality is illegal, the guy will have reprecupssions. 

What he is doing your cousin is completely wrong and immoral. He is lying ,and giving glimpse of future which should not happen.Your cousin should know the truth and has the right to be upset. She is being cheated behind her back.

Then on the other hand,he could be getting married due to societal pressure and to hide his sexuality. So,it's good to know the full story on his side too.

He is wrong no doubt,but one side he cannot be truly be free to be who he wants to be infront of society. I feel for both of them.

What is 100% correct is they should not walk down the aisle together b.c. it will only shatter their lives..


Nobody gives shit about it. You dont go to jail for homosexuality. It isnt on the police agenda on high priority.  But he has no right to keep her in the dark and waste her life. I do not care for his sexual prefernce because it is his life. But he should make it fully clear to the girl and what her expectations are prior to getting married. If he is doing this as deceit then it is wrong and unfair and she doesnt need to become a sacrificial lamb for his preferences.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: rimi2983

BD - Send it to Boss. He will send it to girl's parents without getting caught. He seems to be master of disguise .
Don't do anything in hurry. When is marriage?How much time do you have?


based on his posts he thinks they will think jealousy or get killed for showing such videos so he wont do anything.. he will sit chup chap 😆

tm should talk to her parents and tell the bride directly.. the girl should know what she is getting into...
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi


Bakwas argument ka javab nahi hota. 😆


Good you acknowledge your argument is bakwaas
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: TheBoss


Nobody gives shit about it. You dont go to jail for homosexuality. It isnt on the police agenda on high priority.  But he has no right to keep her in the dark and waste her life. I do not care for his sexual prefernce because it is his life. But he should make it fully clear to the girl and what her expectations are prior to getting married. If he is doing this as deceit then it is wrong and unfair and she doesnt need to become a sacrificial lamb for his preferences.


People do go jail for homosexuality 
If op send video as suggested by many the guy depanding on his money power can file criminal case against op and she could land in criminal soup.
Also if girl family is against this the guy could end up losing his job,family ,reputation
If girl family know about it then op will be still going to face persecution from family

No way end up good for op.
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: jaanetu


based on his posts he thinks they will think jealousy or get killed for showing such videos so he wont do anything.. he will sit chup chap 😆

tm should talk to her parents and tell the bride directly.. the girl should know what she is getting into...


She should directly talk to her parents and you think the guy and his family wont find out who made the video recording? They will take this as personal insult on their character especially for something taboo like homosexuality subject in India. You think they will just say oops my bad sorry things didnt work out, bye? TM's identity will leak out one way or another. People talk. Thats what they do.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Please don't confront directly as @theboss said people doesn't always think sensibly and this can even make worse equation between u n ur friend
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: SherlockHouse


People do go jail for homosexuality 
If op send video as suggested by many the guy depanding on his money power can file criminal case against op and she could land in criminal soup.
Also if girl family is against this the guy could end up losing his job,family ,reputation
If girl family know about it then op will be still going to face persecution from family

No way end up good for op.


Exactly, if the girl's family is vindictive, they can file a case against the guy and BD will be caught in a very serious criminal proceeding since she provided the video evidence.

Since she has asked for advice here, she should be acquainted with the worst case scenario too.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: TheBoss


She should directly talk to her parents and you think the guy and his family wont find out who made the video recording? They will take this as personal insult on their character especially for something taboo like homosexuality subject in India. You think they will just say oops my bad sorry things didnt work out, bye? TM's identity will leak out one way or another. People talk. Thats what they do.


people talk... that's what they do... so some speak up that's what they do and don't project fears which may or may not come true... tm seems to have a good head on her shoulders and should assess the situation well enough to know if she can speak up or cannot.. she is warning the girl... she is not trying to destroy the guy for her to supposedly get killed for a video. 
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: SherlockHouse


Good you acknowledge your argument is bakwaas


Yup. Guilty as charged. Aapke samne koi tik nahi sakta. 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by: gatheringstorm


Exactly, if the girl's family is vindictive, they can file a case and BD will be caught in a very serious criminal proceeding since she provided the video evidence.


And if that happens i would fear for op life 
Ppl hv killed for less here