Posted: 27 April 2016 at 11:32am | IP Logged
Omg! Oh god!
These days its parents fiasco in dahleez.
Today I think ramakrishnans were thinking more about
Their pride and 'izzat' than her daughter's happiness.
I know that even maybe their way was a little extreme but
Its a show right so some drama. . . but in real life
Indian parents are ditto.
I think maybe maybe some minority would be those
Parents who think more of their child's happiness
In these cases. . .I am not judging parents nor i ever would coz i respect them too much for that.
All I think is if a child is flawed parents are too . . .
If a child make mistakes even his parents
They are also humans and no human is perfect.
I guess people don't lose the ability to make mistakes if they grow up.
And in cases parents do accept their kid's choice . . .eventually!
But it really breaks my heart that some parents are resentful about
Letting their child make the most important decision of his life.
The problem where they want to be a part of every single decision you make in
Your life with the ability to change your decision in way they feel like( no offense they
Do have the authority in our life)
And it lands where you take your partner to your home saying you love him and
All comes crashing down!
The main thing is parents love their kids very dearly and think that they still
Don't have the mindset to make such decisions themselves without their help or at all
On their own!
I understand this more coz my family is like that!
And the fear lies there also where they feel they'll marry out of community...
Sadheenta's parents love her a lot but when things come to her love
Selected for her by herself . . . that doesn't goes very very well with them!
Their sudden change of opinion shows the prevailing mentality in
Majority of Indian parents. . .
This shows their broadmindedness about their kid but the narrow mindedness
About his/her love . . .
A/n : I'm very sorry for bragging this thing but needed to get my feelings out.
Sorry for hurting anyone..
If done plzz forgive me
Do share what you think!