Posted: 27 April 2016 at 6:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by moonwearerWhen families consider marriage as a conquest of widening territory or power of wealth and clout they must be prepared the plan can back fire. Jaidev smiles as his brother has broken away from the path he trod...Jaya will not be saddled by the guilt of bringing about an unhappy marriage.
While it is very sad that people rush unmindful of the feelings of others it is equally sad that they fail to look deeply to understand the reality that stares so obviously at the face...if we care to see.
If Freedom does not speak up Adarsh would have walked up the altar. He has nothing against Vanshika. He has love only for Freedom and if that doesn't materialise anybody is fine.
He does err by not speaking up. The eternal peace maker who tries to see and do good unto others. He has thus far never said or done anything to hurt others. Even when the label LOSER is affixed to him. The father is unable to relate to him though he relates to the other two sons and DILs. In the case of Suhasini she dotes on her son yet is not perceptive of his feelings. Her denial that nothing can go wrong in my upbringing makes her commit Harakiri.
Bundelas should have been a bit more critical in reading people . Other than calling Freedom Cheap we didn't see any discernment. Yes they may have been forgiving to Ahuja which can get raked up now.
If Yash and Adarsh were pursuing love...look at their effort...both want to dance but reasons are different...Adarsh fell for a maturing professional what Yash fell for is a kidoo...His parents conceded due to his Zidd...Adarsh wins his lady's heart with genuine acts of care. Adarsh admits to his adversary and FIL to be of his love which he was sure of. Once he hears the UNROMANTIC love acknowledgement he takes Freedom's hands and walks with confidence looks his dad in the eye and admits he had no feelings for Vanshika and apologises to Vanshika . He watches on as Freedom apologises to her Mam. In the precap he is seen shunned. yes we know the events will repeat on the same lawns with new tones tunes and flavors...We can fall or fail...what matters is how we rise and shape up.
I too don't think the Bundela's should blame everything on Swa, the Sinhas should accept the blame since its obviously their family values that led to everything going wrong.
I know he apologized to Vanshika, and at that moment there was nothing more left for him to do. But that doesn't make up for the humiliation she faced in front of her relatives and all.
Suhasini should've been able to read her son's face, instead she just shunned him out saying that this how its always been in our so called traditions and society.