from raginis point of view. - Page 4

Originally posted by: foresight

simple thing with ragini is that wrong was done to her and she also did wrong. let us not mince words here.

could she/should she have still held herself together and not gone down the route of wrong despite wrong having been done to her - absolutely. 

should she have gotten over her obsessions and moved on - yes - it would have been a lot healthier for her if she had

but was wrong done to her - yes it was. her doing wrong doesnt take away from that. 

I have said before many times that she is 80% responsible for the wrong path that she went down. she should have held on to stronger moral compass and stayed on the right path. but equally 20% of responsibility is with the others who pushed her down the route. 

Ragini has been very insecure and very people have understood or picked it up. and the truth is that she was right fully insecure. anyone in her position would be. that is not a justification for her wrong deeds because we all know there can be no justification for that, but equally her insecurity was real. 

she grew up in a house where she wasnt allowed to express herself. she had to follow the dictat of the family esp her dadi who wasnt all that correct person herself. she was told that she was to be married to someone and that someone would be whole and sole, her upbringing was such that she took it for was it was. she never really had the love of shekhar despite what many say. he had himself said in some of the episodes that he would tell her to be more like swara (it is a different matter that he wasnt a good father to swara either) but he wasnt always there as a father for ragini either. dadi while taking her side and loving her, had her own agenda that were important to her. so she was at that point craving for love from anyone who would give it. her hopes now from shomi, swara and laksh given what was happening with dadi and shekhar. but shomi when she found out about laksh loving swara, instead of talking to the family pretended to faint. ragini worried about her more than her engagement, asked for it to be canceled, only to find out shomi had pretended to faint. she might not have wanted to hurt three lives, but it wasnt exactly what a mother should have done. then shomi wakes up to ragini's mistakes as a mother and only slaps her post swasan wedding to bring her to correct path. what happened to bringing the back to correct path before? netter shomi nor swara despite their caring realised that ragini loved laksh was was in pain over the quick wedding despite her pushing for it. swara loved her sister blindly - very very true --- and to the extent that it irked us. but like she was blind to ragini's faults, she was also blind to her pain over laksh. laksh the one person that she hoped was her salvation broke her heart again and again. and chose her sister. her best friend sanskar (who i like the most in the show) also gave her a nudge in the wrong direction and then realising his own mistake moved back...and asked her to...but may be not as strongly enough.

so was wrong done to her...yes...did that mean she should have done all the manipulations and hurt and games that she did - nopes.

did other characters have their own issues and pitfalls - yes. but since this post is about ragini - i am sticking to her character

about the CVs less said the better since they have messed up a lot of characters already. sanskar included.

Originally posted by: sky_fighter

ragini had love of her father and dadi thats why she was such a sweetheart in the beginning but later everyone used her like a plastic doll and after a while she started returning the favors! im not defending her coz she was an ultra evil person and i wouldnt call her a bechari coz she wasnt or still isint a bechari. swara is a bechari goody two shoes. 

Originally posted by: abaiya123

hey! 

I'm new to this forum actually i am new to the show itself i started watching when the whole kavita track almost ended and i never really posted anything on the forum. so today i was just watching some old episodes of swaragini, before that i was on the forum reading peoples post, some were about how the negative ragini is bad and she's heartless and all. after reading some old posts like this i went back to the episodes and re- watched all of ragini scenes, while watching the scenes i realized that RAGINI wasn't wrong. yes what she DID was wrong but SHE wasn't wrong. i know you guys probably think i'm crazy lol, but its true. what she did was to get the love of lakshya, but not only that she also wanted others to love her too. in the show it was always shown that ragini never got the love of a mother and nor the father. yes her daadi loved her but she always would teach her the not so good things in life. than later on she finds out that her father never loved her mother but someone else and also has a daughter with her, than the guy she was going to marry doesnt love her but loves her sister and rejected her not only once but three times. she had been rejected so many times in life that this was bound to happen. she only wanted love and attention of her families and nothing more. when you watch the episodes you can see the pain in her eyes, the longing for a loved one in her eyes. 

yes i agree what she did was wrong but she wasnt wrong. if people could look at it form her point of view than they would understand. 

this post is not to offend anyone, i am just stating my opinion. 

also the main reason for me getting hooked to the show was raginis character itself. im in love!😛