Posted: 26 April 2016 at 11:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ThugLeader
The thing is a guy can wish for whatever he wnats but that does not mean he is always right
See the problem here is he is saying he wants someone confined to the home, a girl cannot be outgoing and also religiously do house chores as you are saying. Just say yout wife wants you to be confined at home all day, while she will earn big bucks, will you agree? You may agree, than good. If you don't, should I call you s**t? Page3 hungry? Machonazi? Nah I won't. Because I know you are also an individual with your needs, aim and ambition. The problem with our society is we think cooking, cleaning, taking care of house etc etc is a job of a woman. So when woman protests or is bit rebellion towards this, we start calling them feminazi and blah blah.
See I don't agree in being PC, I am not at all a pc as you can see i am on 20% warning
. But people need to get out of this thinking that woman should have a particular set of traits, we have to see them as individuals.
Al so don't think I support the sudden rush of feminazis, because I think feminazi was worse than machos. As they think drinking, smoking and f**king around is equality. I don't support the Deepika brand of feminism.
lthough I agree with you on one thing is that people are becoming PC and critical of each and every thing. Tiger what he said is wrong, but we have to get the factors that he is brought up in a society which still views housewife as the ideal wife (tbh house wife is a really good concept if men gives 100% respect to his wife) and anything less is bad. So jumping on him as some are doing is weird.
Just like few days back people were crazy because of one silly ad.
its his choice isn't it? he is not forcing some outgoing girl to do house chores. He wants a girl who can cook, clean the house, take care of him. There are girls who are happy doing that so he is just gonna look for them and marry one of them, what's the issue?
u will be judged anyway. Guys are judged all the time too. If they sleep around they're called upon like he is a player, not marriage material etc. Same goes for girls. If she sleeps around a lot, she will be called a s**t, simple as that.
She has full rite to go and party and sleep around with multiple guys in the name of individuality and whatnot imo they're taking it to the extreme. They were repressed for so long that now they're like we're gonna do all kinds of things even things which aren't good for us or that we even want just because someone told us to want it and be this way.
its not anyone's job to clean or take care of the house but women are better at it and most guys don't want to do all that, they feel emasculated and the woman doesn't want that either.
its very simple. U have your goals, u want to be a certain way, u want to go out there, earn money, have career, party, drink, smoke weed, take drugs, sleep around, have gangbangs, orgies, etc. Its all fine.
but its also fine if I'm not looking for that kind of girl and looking for someone else who will take care of me and my children, who will cook, more feminine in nature, not wild, etc.
u have the rite what u want to do but I also have the rite to not want that kind of girl and when I don't then I shouldn't be called MCP for it, is that fair?
so here the poor guy has his own dreams and wants a certain kind of girl so what? is he forcing anyone to do those things? If he forcing some party girl or career girl to stay at home and take care of his kids and cook for him? no.
people are looking for different things, u would be amazed how many girls out there are looking just for that, to be a housewife, they're out there, I know many,they're happy being that no one is forcing them, one is not better than the other.