His shouting without giving any consideration of what she has to say was not right , but I can understand he must have felt absolutely bad seeing those papers and sometimes anger /hurt makes people behave in ways they may actually not want to .
I felt like blaming both Naksh and Tara and I have my sympathies with both of them too and their families .
He - Is not able to understand what is expected out of a Husband /BF . He is a nice guy , good son , respects family , loves his Mom but he still needs to become mature to understand these are not enough to be a good husband. You need to be able to provide an environment where your wife can speak her heart out to you and you listen to her , try to understand her , clarify her misconceptions and stand along with her when needed . Every single time your mom cant be the bridge between the 2 of you and you cant take either your wife or your family for granted. Pyar ko express karna padta hai .. dil mein rakhne se , ghar walon ke saamne jatana kafi nahi hai .
She - needs to become mentally more strong by not giving into opinions of anyone and every one . Hiding fears , masking them for a long time take you nowhere and you need to be able to help yourself out by thinking through properly out of insecurities and worries. She needs to stop worrying and start looking for solutions of her worries rather than bottling up in herself .till the wedding altar - by prbably trying to find someone sensible to confide into who can provide unbiased opinion and guidance on the same .
Singhania Family including Akshara and Naitik : Stop trying to solve problems between Naksh and Tara by saying "Jaane do , rehne do , bhool jao". esp taunts one's character is not something that should be let gone. Some difficult discussions are required to get to the root of the problem and sometimes they should leave the Naksh and Tara by themselves to solve issues. Aaapka lalla hamesha aapki nazron mein chota hee rahega , that doesnt mean you dont let him and his wife never solve their problems and always come to you.
They need to be very sure themselves if they could support their DIL's dream of hockey which is quite unconventional for the society in general by goign against their elders/loved ones and standing by DIL.
They should stop comparing conscuiously or sublty every woman of the household against their best DIL Akshara- every woman has their own identity and they should be able to love and respect them for the uniqueness they bring to the family. Atleast these women who were once upon a DIL to some family should have been able to understand what kind of pressure mounts on the girl gettign married from all quarters of the society .
Sorry for the long rant 😊 I was very much moved by yesterday episode and I found it very relatable to real life we see day to day .
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