A poll about FAN (For those who have seen the movie) - Page 2

Originally posted by: dingle_hopper

I dont think the parents can be blamed. I actually felt really bad for them when the mother gives the moving speech at the end of the movie when Aryan comes to visit their house.

I think Gaurav's parents saw it as harmless obsession. Afterall Gaurav was young and many people can obsessively fanboy/girl about their favorite celebs at that age.

Am not blaming them at all. Edited by Beautyful_Mess - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Oh, i agree what Aryan did was big blow looking from Gaurav's perspective, it wasn't very nice.

He cld've tried talking to him and explain what he did was wrong, he obvious didn't think beating Sid up for Aryan was a bad thing.. 😆

@bold THIS.

Even after beating Gaurav up by the police, if Aryan had kind of given Gaurav a good counselling session in the jail it might have worked wonders.

That entire scene in the jail made Gaurav look stubborn as selfish while Aryan was like mehhh...I will beat you up and leave my busy schedule to meet you but not fully explain what you did was wrong..😕

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

 Am not blaming them at all.

Am saying Gaurav's obsession was not normal and it started early age, if i see my kid getting that obsessed with anything i wld be super super worried and take him/her to talk to someone.

That's not a normal behavior and very different from fangirl/boy.

Gaurav's state wasn't that of a healthy person and i don't blame his parents, i blame the lack of awareness and knowledge.

@bold yeah I guess that was the problem

As shown in the movie, Gaurav belonged to a very ordinary family.
In middle-class/lower middle-class families due to lack of knowledge a lot of serious issues can be taken lightly or ignored...

PS- Btw what was your old name? 😊

Originally posted by: dingle_hopper

@bold THIS.

Even after beating Gaurav up by the police, if Aryan had kind of given Gaurav a good counselling session in the jail it might have worked wonders.

That entire scene in the jail made Gaurav look stubborn as selfish while Aryan was like mehhh...I will beat you up and leave my busy schedule to meet you but not fully explain what you did was wrong..😕

Agreed.

You ought to like him in the first half. A simple Delhi boy, who runs a cyber shop and has a crush on a girl and absolutely adores a superstar actor since his childhood. He finds happiness in small things, takes selfies everywhere! Who would not adore him!
You see the first sign of mental sickness in him when he tries to jump off the train! And from right there the twisted Gaurav is unleashed.
I did not hate him per se but I did feel sorry for him. The last selfies in particular, left me harrowing.Edited by PurpleAir - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: dingle_hopper

@bold yeah I guess that was the problem

As shown in the movie, Gaurav belonged to a very ordinary family.
In middle-class/lower middle-class families due to lack of knowledge a lot of serious issues can be taken lightly or ignored...

PS- Btw what was your old name? 😊

That's what i was trying to say (not so good with words 😆) 

@Kif

Aahh thanks! I did think it was you but just wanted to check 😃

Originally posted by: dingle_hopper

@Kif

Aahh thanks! I did think it was you but just wanted to check 😃

Yeah, i don't why didn't put it that simply, wasn't sure you knew my name.😳

What if Gaurav had a brain tumor 😆😆😆

Its rather complicated, its not a simple issue of who was right and who was wrong. Both men were driven by their ego, it was a clash of egos! The fan thought the star owed him for his stardom, the star thought the fan had no right to interfere in his personal battles.Edited by pallavi25 - 8 years ago