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aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 23 April 2016 at 8:52pm | IP Logged
There are a lot of things the kids needed to know but most likely will never know.
The things they know
Shivam and Nandini know about their father. Shivam got to know about his father and his family because his mother used to tell him about them. He knows how Daddu got those chains with lockets made for him and his twin.We don't know whether he ever met Khazan Singh and Shekhars but knows about them.Shivam worships his father and he is his Hero that means he obviously knows what kind of a man Shiv had been.
Nandini knows that her mother loved their father very much and she didn't want to give that place to anyone else.

Anandi was telling Nandini about her life before she became Balika Vadhu.Nandini knows that her mother had been a Balika Vadhu and that marriage failed. Probably Shivam also knows about it.

What they don't know is their Kakusa was the man she was married to when she was a child.How that marriage broke and how her mother gathered herself after that marriage broke.These are the important things which they don't know.Knowing these things would make them love their mother and would have made them proud of their mother.

Rest of the things they don't need to know.

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aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 23 April 2016 at 9:22pm | IP Logged
Anandi and Shiv in post marriage phase were wasted in stupid family drama.
That Udaipur cast could not connect with viewers on their own merit and they needed Anandi Shiv's presence in the story to make their characters and stories relevant.
In all this Bhaili got a raw deal.But what ever little that has been shown was good.
There were some good stories like Chanda who inspired Anandi to open Bhail then there was Subhasini's story which were really good.

Much of Shekhar drama was useless.First 6 months of Anandi Shiv's married life was dedicated to Sanchi Jagya Ganga triangle.That probably was done to keep Udaipur Jaitser tracks to keep connected and make viewers accept Ganga despite Gauri Jagya track not getting a proper closure.
Nobody wanted Jagya to end up with someone like Sanchi.
After that Sanchi's  story post court case and fake suicide drama even though it was irritating there was good social message as to how Sanchi in her foolshness ended up in bad company which ended up doing a great harm to her. Post rape till Sanchi's marriage was a good story too.Because it showed the story of a rape victim gathering courage to fight for justice and then moving on in life. Sanchi doing that with the support of Anandi. The role Anandi played in Sanchi in that phase brought out the best of Anandi.
But getting Sanchi married to her rapist's brother was just too much to bear.Return of Saurabh and him harrassing Sanchi etc were totally unnecessary.DeadSleepy

Shekhar family issues were small but they made Anandi Shiv bond grow stronger with each passing day.They bonded over solving family problems.

Amol Anandi Shiv story was nice too.

All thanks to large family we missed out on the stories which could have been told through their professional lives or the challenges they faced in their professional lives.
We got a few tracks of Shiv's professional life.
But the challenges Anandi's Bhaili faced is something we wanted to see but we got to see that only towards the end of Udaipur chapter.
Rasika's track I think they wanted to show how some women are misusing the laws that were made to protect women. Sanchi used the laws to protect women in the right way while Rasika used them in the wrong way.It is just that Rasika's track was not executed well even though it ended well.
But we got to see how strong Anandi Shiv bond and the level their trust and interdependence. 

Over all the only disappointment from Udaipur track was not being shown the husband and wife bonding over the challenges they faced in professional lives/careers.

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leavesandwaves IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 23 April 2016 at 9:55pm | IP Logged
My reasons

Why twins should know about mannu? Because it will show them that their kakusa can give love and affection whether he is his own son or not. And they will know that their kakisa also is a victim of balvivah.

Knowing about Gauri will make them think why balvivah was held responsible for that phase in some way.

About their grandfather going to jail. It is very difficult because both sets of grandfathers went to jail.

And as the twins are living amidst people with lots of interactions, all these things will come to the fore one day or the other.

The kids will realise making mistakes and realising the mistakes and becoming good human beings  are all part of life. Thus they can forgive Harki one day. One need not tell all these things straightaway. It can be told leisurely when the kids become mature enough to digest all this information.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 23 April 2016 at 9:57pm
aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 23 April 2016 at 10:26pm | IP Logged
They already love their Kakusa. Shivam has seen it and Nandini too. So they don't need to know about Mannu and his biological father etc nor do they need to know about Ganga's first marriage. Abhi needs to know all that and about Gauri too Jagya's kids need to know not Anandi's kids.
Yes they need to know that one of their grand father was an honest humble farmer and the other was a soldier who lost everything in life while both led very honorable lives till they felt slighted by more prosperous relatives of theirs ended up taking wrong path got punished by law. Both Anandi and Shiv's fathers were examples of how  even men of honour in their weak moments can become devil's workshops. 
_goofyCat_ IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 24 April 2016 at 12:30am | IP Logged
Its like the BalikaVadhu that I have been watching from 8 years is ending and a whole new show is starting.

Its not necessary that the kids know each and every thing in the past but there is no harm as well if they know it. What they really need to know is their parents journey before and after they met each other, and how people around them made a contribution to it, because it is from parents experiences that children learn.

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BeautifulSoul_ IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 24 April 2016 at 7:03am | IP Logged
Most of the viewers did not want Jagya to end up with Gauri  neither cvs had space in their serial to settle Jagya with Gauri after the way cvs showed Gauri , that is the reason Ganga was introduced otherwise cvs would have settled Jagya with Gauri not introduced Ganga .
Strange even when the original actress casted for Ganga's role left the serial saying she has been cheated , she was offered a parallel lead 's role but her story was cut short and rushed , not given her promised screen space and tracks did not go the way it was promised to her while signing her  Even after these words from the actress still  some people are trying to prove Sanchi's angle was introduced to make Ganga acceptable to viewers Wacko

Sanchi's drama was introduced to make drama for Anandi  Sanchi made drama for Anandi  .Anandi in dilemma Sanchi wants to marry Jagya on every cost , Jagya married Ganga and because of Sanchi sasural maika drama for Anandi , Anandi caught between her best friend  ( ex husband )and her husband because current husband is angry on Anandi and her friend because her friend married someone else not his sister , Sanchi's  suicide drama and blamed Jagya falsely Shekhars pressurizing Anandi to support them only Whom Anandi will support her sasural or maika ..In the end Shekhars apologizing to Anandi and accepting her the best Sanchi was lectured to follow Anandi's footsteps to become a good woman .. This was the drama for Ganga ?This was drama for Anandi

Ganga and Jagya screen space actually suffered because of Anandi and Sanchi useless drama and viewers had to face the replacement of actress too 

Edited by BeatifulSoul_ - 24 April 2016 at 7:06am

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saba113 IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 24 April 2016 at 7:38am | IP Logged
@Sidra True 
It amazes  me how it is said Sanchi's drama was made to make Ganga acceptable to viewers ?If Sanchi's drama was for Ganga then why would Sriti leave the show ?Confused after all drama was for her to make her character acceptable ?The fact Sanchi was forced in JaGan story to make drama for Anandi from JaGan story and because of this drama of Anandi and Sanchi we viewers not given the detailing in JaGan story

Sanchi made drama for Anandi Jagya and Ganga did not need Sanchi The viewers wanted to accept Ganga accepted it on the very first day when news about her started coming In fact cvs would know most of viewers will not to see Gauri back in Jagya's life thats why they created Ganga A beautiful character   but their insecurity Ganga may not outshine their Anandi made them sideline Ganga and not give even her deserving screen space in the tracks related to her 

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Nandini30 Senior Member

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Posted: 24 April 2016 at 8:07am | IP Logged
Shiv is dead anandi is dead sekhars vanished Jagya ?
New show with new actors
Who is bothered about old charecters time to move on.

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