Arpitas husband is all set for his debut - mission accomplished? - Page 2

Posted: 7 years ago
Ayush is a rich n politically well connected man. Does he need to go to such extent to enter BW?
Everyone gives example of Ranveer who got his break via dad's money, Ayush would also have done it.
If Salman had power, Arbaz n Sohail would be successful.
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by Mistyy


Look, at the end of the day Arpita is an adult and she made her choice. I am sure all these things that we discuss have already crossed her and her family's mind. Even after that , they said ok for this marriage. So there must be something. As long as he keeps her happy, all these things dont matter. Because if he got connections to bollywood through this marriage, Arpita also got a pretty good looking husband (somthing she might have wanted all along)

Yep. I agree it's economics 101. But as it stands right now they are both on equal footing but from here on he gets the upper edge. 
Posted: 7 years ago
I think (speculating here) Salman would have made a condition that give me a niece/nephew and you will get a break in BW. If this is what happened, its disgusting! Marriage wont last like this if not based on love. 
The guy looks like a creep/gold-digger anyways. 

Edit - And its not about coming from money or being in political background. I will tell you a true story. A guy who studied from IIM and IIT (both one of the best in the world to educate from) where people make so much money after graduating from them, asked for a home in mumbai, marriage expense, jewelry. This was just the beginning. God knows what would they have asked later. Its disgusting, you would think a person who is so well educated and making so much money & coming from a well-off family would ask for such things... 
Edited by uscgirl - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by uscgirl


I think (speculating here) Salman would have made a condition that give me a niece/nephew and you will get a break in BW. If this is what happened, its disgusting! Marriage wont last like this if not based on love. 
The guy looks like a creep/gold-digger anyways. 

This is standard operating procedure for some families because they think a kid offers some sort of surety and security as commitment from the guy but being a guy I can tell you that this is baloney. It actually works out in his favor. The wife gets busy taking care of the baby and raising him while he is pursuing other "endeavors". By then some wives even stop bothering because they live in plausible denial mending their home and occupying in their own little world (a husband, baby, her own home, kitchen) and supposedly its a milestone. 
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by Mistyy


Look, at the end of the day Arpita is an adult and she made her choice. I am sure all these things that we discuss have already crossed her and her family's mind. Even after that , they said ok for this marriage. So there must be something. As long as he keeps her happy, all these things dont matter. Because if he got connections to bollywood through this marriage, Arpita also got a pretty good looking husband (somthing she might have wanted all along)
 
 
 
This is  exactly the situation with a family friend who has a mentally disabled daughter and yet this guy in India married her so he could come to America. I couldn't understand how the  family is ok with that that.  Her mother wanted her to have a normal life with marriage and kids so she was willing to marry her daughter off  to anyone.  If you talk to the daughter, it's like talking to a 6 year old even though she is 27 and now she has a baby, don't know how she managed that. The guy stays with her family in the house. It's a disturbing situation and I have no respect for such a man who would take advantage of a mentally disabled person for his own benefit.
Edited by schadenfreude - 7 years ago
Posted: 7 years ago
That pic though...no offence but he looks like a creep. Like one of those lifeless thugs that roams around on the streets.
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by schadenfreude


 
 
 
This is  exactly the situation with a family friend who has a mentally disabled daughter and yet this guy in India married her so he could come to America. I couldn't understand how the  family is ok with that that.  Her mother wanted her to have a normal life with marriage and kids so she was willing to marry her daughter off  to anyone.  If you talk to the daughter, it's like talking to a 6 year old even though she is 27 and now she has a baby, don't know how she managed that. The guy stays with her family in the house. It's a disturbing situation and I have no respect for such a man who would take advantage of a mentally disabled person for his own benefit.

I think parents are to be blamed more. Its inhuman. So practically she is a child. 
Posted: 7 years ago
^^^That is well and good but what happens when he gets his green card or citizenship? This is the problem with parents they don't think it through its all about present problems and f**k what happens later we shall see but for now lets shut up the relatives/world first. 
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by TheBoss



This is standard operating procedure for some families because they think a kid offers some sort of surety and security as commitment from the guy but being a guy I can tell you that this is baloney. It actually works out in his favor. The wife gets busy taking care of the baby and raising him while he is pursuing other "endeavors". By then some wives even stop bothering because they live in plausible denial mending their home and occupying in their own little world (a husband, baby, her own home, kitchen) and supposedly its a milestone. 
Not always the case, many women are fine with their husbands sleeping with other women because they no longer have interest in sex after having children. I know two such cases. One is an ex boyfriend who's wife tells him to get himself a girlfriend because she has no interest in  the kinky sex he wants daily. Well he's done exactly that.
Posted: 7 years ago
Originally posted by TheBoss


^^^That is well and good but what happens when he gets his green card or citizenship? This is the problem with parents they don't think it through its all about present problems and f**k what happens later we shall see but for now lets shut up the relatives/world first. 
I think he has his green card but don't know what the future holds. We can't ask the family since it's a sensitive subject.

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