Unfair to Shagun

• I am a ISHRA fan. I badly want them to get back together.
• That said, I don't hate Shagun. I like her.
• I don't like buttering of ANY character - especially making Shagun a demon to make Ishita look great or vice versa.

Shagun and Raman were married for almost 10 years... I am sure they were happy for atleast the first 5 years...

Originally posted by: chapsi23

About me:

• I am a ISHRA fan. I badly want them to get back together.
• That said, I don't hate Shagun. I like her.
• I don't like buttering of ANY character - especially making Shagun a demon to make Ishita look great or vice versa.

Shagun and Raman were married for almost 10 years... I am sure they were happy for atleast the first 5 years...

Ishita and Raman were married for 2 years.. Ishita took care of Ruhi as her own child and thus gained respect in Raman's house...

 

Now Shagun has been living with Raman for 7 years taking care of Ishita's child... She even let go of Manoj for this...

 

I know Shagun and Raman don't have a chemistry now. So I am not routing for them getting back together. I certainly want IshRa.

 

However, I think it would be unfair if Pihu gets more attached to Ishita than Shagun later. Ishita left Pihu just as Shagun left Ruhi (the reasons are completely different - Shagun was selfish at that time, Ishita was immersed in grief and guilt after the death of Ruhi). However the re-entry of Shagun into the Bhalla family for Pihu is no less appreciable or noble than Ishita's entry for Ruhi. Ishita atleast had the tag of "Raman's wife". Shagun doesn't even have that.

 

So if we come up with a table of "Shagun Vs Ishita" for who should be more respected or loved or should be closer (as appropriate) to the following people, here is what I think should be the right equations:

 

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Character                     Shagun Vs Ishita

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Raman                           Ishita

Ruhi                               Ishita

Pihu                               Shagun

Adi                                 Shagun  (I know about the earthquake track, but I feel that was just to

                                      butcher Shagun. I would go with the Shagun from accident track).

Rest of Bhalla family     Shagun  (have high regard for Ishita as well, but Shagun beats just by the 

                                      number of years of service)

 

 

I know a heroine is always made to look like "perfect" and YHM is no different, but the above equation is only fair.

 

 

Originally posted by: TheGlamourgal

Raman.        Ishita always

Ruhi              Ishita

Adi.                Ishita

Pihu.              Shagun and. Ishita

Firstly , raman  ,ruhi,pihu , adi are not some entities they are humans.Ishita is in their hearts , they love her more than any thing else .Raman n the kids may give respect to shagun for helping them but will never give the position of ishu to shagun .

Raman loved shags like crazily once upon a time but that moment has gone , then he loved ishu n still he loves her only .just coz shagun helped him will not make things back again to sharam, he will have gratitude but not that love moment again .same applies to adi n ruhi, they got love from ishu when they needed n now they are completely ishu kids .eg, adi .If again time comes they will choose ishu over their own blood parents sharam.

Pihu...seeing.ishita's char , she  herself will give all the first rights of pihu to shagun coz she raised her. Ishita will never separate pihu from shags neither she will allow any unfair ness.even before too she never stopped ruhi n adi to meet shags n now she will never stop pihu too.

Along with ishu,raman , shagunn the whole balla family needs to be blamed in pihu'case.The day the kid knows the reason abt her mother not being with her , she will blame every one except ishu coz her mother choosing her over her sis has made her father to say mean things n that leading to her mother going to suicide ,then  all the hell will break loose and finally for healing she will go to her mother ishita only.

Just wait for ishra face off, all the dynamics of the kids with their parents will change.

Originally posted by: TheGlamourgal

Raman. Ishita always

Ruhi Ishita

Adi. Ishita

Pihu. Shagun and. Ishita

Firstly , raman ,ruhi,pihu , adi are not some entities they are humans.Ishita is in their hearts , they love her more than any thing else .Raman n the kids may give respect to shagun for helping them but will never give the position of ishu to shagun .

Raman loved shags like crazily once upon a time but that moment has gone , then he loved ishu n still he loves her only .just coz shagun helped him will not make things back again to sharam, he will have gratitude but not that love moment again .same applies to adi n ruhi, they got love from ishu when they needed n now they are completely ishu kids .eg, adi .If again time comes they will choose ishu over their own blood parents sharam.

Pihu...seeing.ishita's char , she herself will give all the first rights of pihu to shagun coz she raised her. Ishita will never separate pihu from shags neither she will allow any unfair ness.even before too she never stopped ruhi n adi to meet shags n now she will never stop pihu too.

Along with ishu,raman , shagunn the whole balla family needs to be blamed in pihu'case.The day the kid knows the reason abt her mother not being with her , she will blame every one except ishu coz her mother choosing her over her sis has made her father to say mean things n that leading to her mother going to suicide ,then all the hell will break loose and finally for healing she will go to her mother ishita only.

Just wait for ishra face off, all the dynamics of the kids with their parents will change.

Originally posted by: Manan_Pani_fan

Good post

Raman: Shagun or a new girl
Ruhi: Ishita
Adi: Shagun
Pihu: Shagun
Bhallas: Shagun

Ishita isn't a mother, she is a nanny. She is obsessed with Ruhi, that's it.