Tolerating injustice is a bigger crime than committing injustice !!!

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Posted: 8 years ago

The quote in Bhagavad Gita where Lord Shri Krishna once said to Arjuna "It is sin to commit injustice,but it is a greater sin to tolerate injustice" holds true...that is if one continues to tolerate the injustice being done now, then it gives the offenders the courage to continue with their sins...and there shall be no end to it.

Unless one raise their voices for honesty, truth and compassion against the injustice, greed and lies the situations will not change on its own.We need to speak the truth even if our voice shakes.

People don't bother if injustice is being done to some one but it makes a huge difference when the same situation is being faced by them or their loved ones...if you see an injustice its better to voice your opinion be it for yourself or others.

It takes a lot of courage, efforts to stand up for what you believe in and it may involve lot of risks as well.What you allow is what you continue...Never ever be bullied in to silence, for you will allow yourself to be made into a victim.

Do not let some one get comfortable by disrespecting you. One needs to stand up for what one believes in even if it means standing alone...It does take a lot to stand alone.

One should refuse to be disrespected at all no matter what. You cannot always be nice,people will take advantage of you...you have to set boundaries.

Dhani is nice most of the time but she should voice her truth before all before things get worse...Bua has never given her respect, while others are just silently spectators watching dhani get humiliated...she needs to apply the rights of her as bahu before bua...she can't let herself be bullied all over again.

With much difficulty she has regained her happiness with viplav and she should not let any one rob of her happiness...the advice of DT which she keeps following is hurting her and she must clear it with viplav as well irrespective of bua leaving or not.

Being quiet will only let her enemies take advantage of her and they shall continue to do what they had planned.

Every person needs to set boundaries beyond which they should not let any one do any damage to them, allowing some one to disrespect or mistreat you should never be acceptable no matter what...at times one has to stand up alone to face the injustice.

Do share your views.😊

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Nuttyme

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Posted: 8 years ago

What a lovely post pearl.

Seriously dhaani shud be more firm in her approach. Just like the way she is being assertive and expressive about her love for Viplav.

Let's hope tom VIPu dear makes it clear to dadi bus that she can't treat dhaani like a doormat.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hello Nutty 😃 good to see you...thank you for reading and sharing your view... yes firstly she thought she could handle the situation well...not things are not going right and she is hurting herself over and over...hopefully viplav must make it clear to dadi bua regarding her mistreatment towards dhani.

No person deserves that after all she just came for puja, she is herself a guest and she behaves like a malkin of the house...and dhani is looking after viplav she should be grateful to her instead all she does is humiliate...hopefully somehow dhani gathers her strength and faces that bua.Till then take care.

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Nuttyme

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dhaani is only portraying a typical Indian Bahu... Most of the time as bahuz we keep quiet when something insanely unjust happens... Just to keep peace at home.

But then... There is a limit right.

Dhaani ... Being dhaani... Will never speak... It's Viplav who needs to steer her out of this muck,

Isn't it grt to see the charactar of dhaani..ntransforming so beautifully... And tru to the essence of the story... Only and only love has made that transformation in her.

Hope she finds her way out.

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1006935

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Posted: 8 years ago

True Nutty love has given her strength and the transformation is indeed beautiful...lets see what secrets she is going to find about the two entries 😆 she is the one who always end up finding...with viplav's support they can face anything...aaj kal viplav bhi chup rah raha hai...lets see what is stored for us...hopefully they don't drag this matter a lot.

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nusrat

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Posted: 8 years ago

Swati waah yet another sensible post dear😳
Ofc I completely agree with u.. title s d nutshell of today's episode. . Dhani attitude hav strengthen these ANwasis further n to humiliate her even more.. how dat bua stopped her as an outsider far far away frm mandap was painful to watch.. ofc DT s facilitating bua in doing all ths shit.. ths man's true face should b revealed now.. I hope thru bua we get his asli chehra now.. how he was complimenting that aaj ki aae ladki today was creepy.. n its hinting towards his involvement in whole of ths fiasco..😕 I dun think itni jaldi Vipu will open up.. I hope kal we witness something dhamakedaar..😳 but bua n kamini is going to stay here long I guess..

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Archu

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Posted: 8 years ago

Brilliant post !! Pearl !!

It's high time she needs to stand for herself either her generosity and selfless nature will pave way for many issues.Some thing you never stop refusing to bear !Injustice !!

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Meenakshi-rg

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Posted: 8 years ago

Yes absolutely agree with you pearl. What alovely write up . Every individual should protect one's self respect.Letting everyon walk over you is not done.

standing up for one's right does not make you a lesser human being , in fact

it makes you a stronger person.

dhani should stand up for herself.

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1006935

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hello Nuss 😃 thank you for reading and sharing your view...DT and kanak were approving of kamini na..yehlog baaz nahi ayenge only daadi was disagreeing to what ever was being told...yeh raj kaha chalagaya uske dost ki shaadi mai ???😲😆

Her rash behavior should have been stopped in the beginning itself...yea may be they might reveal DT's true colors...viplav aaj kal chup rah rha hai kya karen hum ab...before he used to stand for anything...these people wont leave that is certain...viplav bolna hai unhe aap log do din ke liye thena ab jayiye 😆 Hope dhani wont be mistreated further more. Bas through ot the serial we have seen it, more than enough for us.Till then take care.

Edited by pearl100 - 8 years ago

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1006935

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hello Archana 😃 thank you for reading and sharing your view...true she has already tolerated more than enough and bua wont stop at anything ...they have already started creating more problems for her as it is...now dhani should be able to tackle it and face bua on her own..she cant keep letting bua insult her over and over...till then take care.

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