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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 3:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

@lighting the pyre - Did Jagya say that he is asking Anandi to fulfill Dsa's wish with the rights of Dsa's pota?
It looked like Jagya as the heir to Dsa and family member of Dsa requesting Anandi to fulfill his grandmother's last wishes.

Don't understand why CVs wanted this.
If it was to break another stereo type that only male members should light the pyre and female members can do so only if there is no son.Then I guess it is a good message with Anandi the chosen one despite Dsa the presence of a male heir.
Other than that I don't see any reason. Only Dsa who undertook a long journey from traditional society which endorsed male supremacy in the society and family to believing that men and women are equal in every way can express a wish like this just to prove a point.

Her wanting to dress up like a suhagan in order to meet her husband is another taboo she broke.

She wanted all the pomp and grandeur which she loved and wanted to be given a grand send off and it is so like Dsa.




@bold, It looked that way only to me.
At the time of Shiv also, they showed the adopted kid has as equal rights as a biological kid..

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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 3:54am | IP Logged
Originally posted by russhmeSS

Originally posted by aparnauma

@lighting the pyre - Did Jagya say that he is asking Anandi to fulfill Dsa's wish with the rights of Dsa's pota?
It looked like Jagya as the heir to Dsa and family member of Dsa requesting Anandi to fulfill his grandmother's last wishes.

Don't understand why CVs wanted this.
If it was to break another stereo type that only male members should light the pyre and female members can do so only if there is no son.Then I guess it is a good message with Anandi the chosen one despite Dsa the presence of a male heir.
Other than that I don't see any reason. Only Dsa who undertook a long journey from traditional society which endorsed male supremacy in the society and family to believing that men and women are equal in every way can express a wish like this just to prove a point.

Her wanting to dress up like a suhagan in order to meet her husband is another taboo she broke.

She wanted all the pomp and grandeur which she loved and wanted to be given a grand send off and it is so like Dsa.




@bold, It looked that way only to me.
At the time of Shiv also, they showed the adopted kid has as equal rights as a biological kid..
Exactly when Mangala died Nandini lit the pyre.
For Shiv it was Amol.
So there is a pattern.
Don't think it was about showing Anandi Dsa bond.

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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 4:24am | IP Logged
I really hope that CVs would be kind enough not to show Anandi's last rites being performed.
Instead of her death scene and last rites they can show something similar to the way Rose's life ended in the movie Titanic.

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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 8:13am | IP Logged
@If it was to break another stereo type that only male members should light the pyre and female members can do so only if there is no son.Then I guess it is a good message with Anandi the chosen one despite Dsa the presence of a male heir.
In reply to this  if this is  what cvs wanted to show  then why not make sugna do this ? Sugna is  the eldest grandchild of Dadisaa and also a granddaughter  ?why not sugna ? if in explanation to this people will say this why only elders get all the rights not the younger one then my reply is ok make Bhairavi do it , who is the youngest grandchild of Dadisaa and also a granddaughter ?Dadisaa 's eldest grandchild is also a granddaughter and youngest one is also granddaughter but ignoring both making Anandi the chosen one when cvs do so much bias among daughters  too then how they can be glorified by saying they were sending a good message because they were breaking another stereo type that only male members should light the pyre and females do that in absence of son but here she did in presence of son but  Dadisaa had two more  female heirs why they were ignored ?Heck they were not even shown at Dadisaa's funeral leave making them lit Dadisaa's pyre ? Were they  not related to Dadisaa ? Didnt Dadisaa loved them ? Dadisaa even did not remember them ?

Cvs only wanted Anandi to do it  These are just excuses to cover them If they would care about message then they would not have forgot about sugna and bharavi Leave  making them lit the pyre at least  should have involved them in the  funeral at least .They did not even bother about that and here cvs are defended they were removing the male female discrimination for customs  For that first should have  shown equality between the daughters of same house


Edited by Mehek134 - 21 April 2016 at 11:08am

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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 8:38am | IP Logged
i think most of the people already said it would be Jagya himself asking Anandi to do it because if they would have  made Dadisaa say it directly then she would be  worst person on earth ( not for Anandi fans though ) and would get all bashing from viewers even on her death so they would never make Dadisaa say it directly , if  they would have made Anandi do it on her own then she would appear bad in viewers eyes so we already knew Jagya will himself say that but we  did not know the reason why he would he say that Now we know because he wanted to fulfill his Dadisaa's wish 
People are counting here all other customs Jagya has performed as if Anandi ji havent performed all the daughter's customs all alone ?but this custom usually son performs because it comes in his duties but here Jagya gave it to Anandi and people were bashing cvs because Anandi had already occupied all screen space in Dadisaa's final moments though she is not only one related to Dadisa and cvs have shown only her  relation with Dadisaa  , she dressed Dadisaa Jagya can't do it because he is son ,Daughters dress up their mothers for their final journey not son ,  at least let Jagya do this bit but even here they had to make Jagya give it to Anandi  Anandi Anandi Anandi then cvs should have kept only Anandi related to Dadisaa 


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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 8:49am | IP Logged
Wonderful keep defending cvs after all they are most pure  souls , those who dare to criticize them are only bashers
Jagya to said to Anandi you have more right on Dadisaa than me How can he not say this  Anandi has more right on everything ? if he would do that won't he become the evil monster ? Every character is good as long as they keep saying Anandi has more rights than them as soon as they start speaking for their rights they become bad like Ganga once became for some people because she dare to ask Anandi with which right you took decision about my  son without asking me .

O ho Dadisaa asked Jagya and Ganga to take care of haveli What a big favor on them ? Could have named haveli too for Anandi and her kids ?Why Jagya should take care of her haveli ?Jagya and Ganga don't want Dadisaa's haveli , they loved Dadisaa and all they always wanted was her happiness but Dadisaa all she did was Anandi jaap and what she said to Jagya and Ganga take care of haveli, give your haveli to Anandi too 

Dadisaa did not say this directly but Jagya understood from her behavior Dadisaa wanted Anandi to lit up her pyre 

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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 9:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

As for bashing Jagya, I did not bash him. I just said that if it was Anandi exhibiting mahanta, she would have been bashed and Jagya's fans also should prepare themselves to face the heat. Why one should differentiate between the two instances and give benefit of doubt to only one party? It is a television show and everyone gets their share of criticism from opposite party whether they deserve it or not.
No one is holy cow here. I am reading all the comments and I observed these things.

Anyhow lets stick to the subject matter.


lols you were not preparing us for heat but attacking us while we did not attack you and what made you say only Jagya fans criticize bechari Anandi?there are other viewers here or not ?

 We are not  holy cows then even you are not ? on what basis you are moral policing us ? Dont you think we seen your comments too ?and Anandi is the holy cow because other characters and fan groups are attacked even on the basis of if just like you saying if Anandi had done that ... Nothing new from you , you always did that 

People have criticized Anandi when she is wrong but here there was no similarity between her and Jagya you forced it yourself just to cover up Anandi for her past criticism and blame us 





Edited by maria13 - 21 April 2016 at 9:06am

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Posted: 21 April 2016 at 12:53pm | IP Logged
Dont think there is any male supremacy if sons perform this custom of giving fire to the pyre of the parents or grandparents Daughters perform their share of customs and no one calls it daughter supermacy so why males share of customs should be called as male supermacy?and then i agree with Mehek first cvs should have done equality between daughters Why Anandi is only daughter of BH not sugna and bharavi?

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