Posted: 19 April 2016 at 5:03pm | IP Logged
Well, I totally disagree with you as Adarsh character is not like typical Indian Hero characters, which are usually Angry youngman and does things instantly right every where , which is very unrealistic in our society
For me Adarsh is the victim of cirucmstances, as we can see somany" Adarshs" around us if we look around. He is just one of them, not a typical indian soap hero, which making me to like his character as its the far most realistic character thus far for me., where we can see the reality of the High society people, (or I can say even Middle class)
Here Adarsh is just as normal typical "Good Boy" of a family , where he is abide by the obligations and the family matters above his personnel things. We all know, no one is perfect, as every one has their own flaws and strength. His strength as Robinhood outside, but at home being shantidoot he got lot of pressure from everyone like dictator mum, dealer dad, arrogant and spoilt brat sali Simmi and the HRH Vanshika, who is actually forcing him to get married.
In real world we can see many ppl like Adarsh in day to day life, where they succumbed by family pressures which are bombarding his head to get married, but at the same time his heart telling something thats what he supposed to .
He actuallly caught between his head and heart. He made a deal with his mum(first epi) so he abide by it . At the same time his heart not accepting the way things going for him. Just like he said to Swa on second coffee date, he caught between big brothers maturity and younger borhter's shararathi, his parents always expect him to be best kid of their's.
He can be like his younger Borther who got married to against his parents wish, but its not his persona. At the same time he cant be like his Big bro who didnt get married to the girl coz of his mum.
In India , I have seen many boys, who fall in Love, and later got married to the other girls as they cant open up to their parents coz of certain rules imposed by Indian society. For many Parents Good children means who never go against their parents, indirectly they dont have a life of their own.
Here Adarsh has life outside the Lawns of Sinha's house, where his Authority let him to do anything, where he can raise his voice anytime, everywhere, but at home, he cant, which is the reality of the many families regardless of the class in Indian society.
When it comes to Vanshika , I really dont bother about the Bundelas as they never asked him whether he loves Vanshika or not. so no need to tell her whether he is loving her not where this stupid assuming 11 years on facebook freindship as relation ship
He reminded Vanshika , her stupidity/ sillyness of school friendship as Love. But this Girl hell bent on getting her "Trophy", then whats the point in talking to her?I really feel pity for myself if we found a Royal like that in real world.
He tried to talk to his mum but she made him to shut his mouth by reminding of the deal.The deal to find a Girl, but not getting married without knowing his approval
The way Suha talked to Adarsh on roka day made me feel sorry for Adarsh to have such bad mum who cant read her son's eyes.
No mum do such deals without knowing her son's heart. she just dumping this Girl on his head as the Her Royal Highness title matters the most. But these things happens in many families even after they knowing the consequences of such marriages lieying themselves saying once after marriage, everything will fall in place. I dont know how?
For Me Adarsh doing whatever he can do without harming anyone's life.
Marrying Vanshika if Swa's "No" is not his choice but its his mum's which he must be abide by it.
which is a reality of indian society, unfortunately.
If Vanshika suffers, its her fault, not his as she got somany clues that he doent Love her at all.
Then how can we justify , his actions ruining Vanshika's life?
Im sure Vanshika will realise her mistake once Swa's confession of her Love for Adarsh, how she ignored all the clues showing the truth which she been willing to ignore.
Im sure Vanshika gets a reality check along with the Suha nd Manohar.
Edited by BenNevis - 19 April 2016 at 5:14pm