Time heals almost everything, give the time some time !!!

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Posted: 8 years ago

Wounds may be categorised as follows...

 Physical

 Emotional

Any wound takes time to heal. But the healing of such wounds depends on the person, time and the efforts put to heal. Physical wounds may leave a scar behind which is visible, then what about the wounds which are invisible to people ie the emotional one. 

Time heals the wounds unless one keeps picking at them.You cannot reopen the wound over and over and expect the wound to heal.

We need to learn to wait, things always fall into place. Patience plays a significant role here... We need to develop and increase our tolerance power.

Since all wounds are not visible we need to be gentle with people when we walk into people's life...one can take as much time as one can to heal themselves emotionally ...it doesn't happen in a day or two and then let one take small steps to move forward to free themselves from their broken self.

 The method one chooses decides for how long the wounds remain with us...in case if one carries grudge for whatever wrong has happened then one brings more pain upon oneself...on the other hand when one chooses to move forward and do positive things they bring sunshine in their lives. In this way the better and good memories over weigh the depressing ones.

The saying out of sight and out of mind holds true...time teaches to forgive and forget to go beyond the painful experience which we have gone through, explore the new world awaiting us...it helps us to give new space for happiness.

Staying strong and positive during difficult times is no easy task. In the end sometimes things happen for good...we just need to hold our self and keep pushing forward. ...Time helps us grow and understand things in a much better manner.

The saying goes true for this episode..."The best feeling in the whole world is to watch things falling into place after watching them fall apart for so long."

We need  to build ourself in such a manner that we have the strength to withstand each and every blow. Don't give up, step by step we will end up stronger than before.

It hasn't been long since shalu had to face nothing less than nightmare..it will take time for her to heal just the way viplav needs time to heal from his physical wounds..she with love and support from dhani and viplav will emerge much stronger than before.

As far as pankaj is concerned he is a sensible man himself, he knows and understands shalu's pain...he has been gentle to her and was her well wisher...even if they do end up together then he will be definitely take care of her and give her the respect, care and love which shalu deserves it. 

Sometimes it may take time for things to fall in to place when life gives us second chance then we should embrace it whole heartedly...so should shalu..Good luck shalu !!! Hope you learn your lessons from your mistakes and may you get the happiness you deserve.

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Posted: 8 years ago
I hope cv's don't rush up things for the sake of the track...let shalu take her time to heal...it was nothing less than a nightmare for her...hope they show pankaj and shalu's bonding in a slow and steady manner than of pat magni ghat vivah types.

Cv's give them time to understand each other carefully and then their bond will strengthen automatically...not just for the sake of pleasing their families they need to rush with this marriage.Let dhani viplav and pankaj be her support system...things take time to fall in place.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: pearl100

I hope cv's don't rush up things for the sake of the track...let shalu take her time to heal...it was nothing less than a nightmare for her...hope they show pankaj and shalu's bonding in a slow and steady manner than of pat magni ghat vivah types.


Cv's give them time to understand each other carefully and then their bond will strengthen automatically...not just for the sake of pleasing their families they need to rush with this marriage.Let dhani viplav and pankaj be her support system...things take time to fall in place.

Well said dear...Good analysisπŸ‘
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello Pearl πŸ˜ƒ thank you for reading and commenting dear...i loved toady's bonding betwenn nanand and bhabhi ...mai toh taras rahithi is bonding ko dekhne keliye πŸ˜ƒ meri mano kamna puri hui πŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
Impressive post ! pearl.!
I do hope Shalu recuperating herself from dreadful nightmare..It seems she is not in love with RA if so then it's no easy to reclaim. Exactly.! He is a balanced man and whatever she expects he will try his level best to keep her happy. Today he found her care taking yet innocent side and there is no inhibition to marry her. Some times its our wounds will create a desire to reach our goals.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Well said dearπŸ‘πŸ‘ and i loved the title😊. 
Yes, time heals everything but make sure that the time you take to heal yourself doesn't take any valuable opportunity form you. 

Here it's not the thripati family but it's our CVs who are in a haste to get Shalu marriedπŸ˜† they just don't know to slow down. 
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello Cocoatree πŸ˜ƒ thank you for reading and sharing your view...yes she will emerge stronger in the end with vidha's support...it's a good thing they are there for her...viplav did select his friends wisely.πŸ˜ƒ

He has a good heart as well...as you said it was just a small incident yet he was moved by her innocence...and yes he will do what ever it takes to make her happy..hopefully shalu will be careful from now on wards and make her self much stronger.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello Stromy πŸ˜ƒ thank you for reading and sharing your view...true the opportunity at our door step should be carefully considered as well...Cv's ki problem kya hai pata nahi raja's end of the story se ab tak bhag rahe hai koi train pakadni hai kya unhe πŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
Swati very well written dear.. 😳
Aadat pad gaee hai tujhe acha acha likhne ki.. 😳
Time hee tou nahi de rahe morins cv's 😑 πŸ˜†
Idk how many weeks passed since ths whole RA fiasco as they dun bother to reveal to us.. bt I wonder once shalu get married.. I hope ths time she does... I sincerely hope... then these ikrs cv's wud come up with wat... 😲 shalu marriage k siwa aata kia hai in k pea sized brain mai..
πŸ˜† chalo I dun wanna spoil ur mood... let them unfold wat's in store fr us.. 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hello Nuss πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜† thank you for reading and sharing your view dear...yeh cv's kya karne wale hai pata nahi acche acche topic express speed mai le gate hai aur bakwas plots chewing gum ki tarah khinchte hai πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

 Yeh aap ne sahi bola...raj aur rl ka topic hai...aur yeh ashram walo ko dikhaye hue kitne mahine hogaye hai ...woh sab doosre tc chanal mai ghosgaye honge ...very bad huh ...unhe toh dikha sakte haina ...abhi bhi dekho dhani ki pag phere bhi puri nahi hui πŸ€£ yeh bh ibhool gaye hai πŸ˜†πŸ˜†log 

Shalu ki kitni baar shadi karvane ki koshish karenge yeh log πŸ˜†πŸ˜† thoda toh respect do shalu ko woh ubhari nahi apne gham se abhi hi shadi ke rat lagayi hai mad cv'sπŸ˜•πŸ˜†

Chi chi kaha se shuru hua yeh story aur kaha jaa raha hai πŸ˜†
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