Wounds may be categorised as follows...
Physical
Emotional
Any wound takes time to heal. But the healing of such wounds depends on the person, time and the efforts put to heal. Physical wounds may leave a scar behind which is visible, then what about the wounds which are invisible to people ie the emotional one.
Time heals the wounds unless one keeps picking at them.You cannot reopen the wound over and over and expect the wound to heal.
We need to learn to wait, things always fall into place. Patience plays a significant role here... We need to develop and increase our tolerance power.
Since all wounds are not visible we need to be gentle with people when we walk into people's life...one can take as much time as one can to heal themselves emotionally ...it doesn't happen in a day or two and then let one take small steps to move forward to free themselves from their broken self.
The method one chooses decides for how long the wounds remain with us...in case if one carries grudge for whatever wrong has happened then one brings more pain upon oneself...on the other hand when one chooses to move forward and do positive things they bring sunshine in their lives. In this way the better and good memories over weigh the depressing ones.
The saying out of sight and out of mind holds true...time teaches to forgive and forget to go beyond the painful experience which we have gone through, explore the new world awaiting us...it helps us to give new space for happiness.
Staying strong and positive during difficult times is no easy task. In the end sometimes things happen for good...we just need to hold our self and keep pushing forward. ...Time helps us grow and understand things in a much better manner.
The saying goes true for this episode..."The best feeling in the whole world is to watch things falling into place after watching them fall apart for so long."
We need to build ourself in such a manner that we have the strength to withstand each and every blow. Don't give up, step by step we will end up stronger than before.
It hasn't been long since shalu had to face nothing less than nightmare..it will take time for her to heal just the way viplav needs time to heal from his physical wounds..she with love and support from dhani and viplav will emerge much stronger than before.
As far as pankaj is concerned he is a sensible man himself, he knows and understands shalu's pain...he has been gentle to her and was her well wisher...even if they do end up together then he will be definitely take care of her and give her the respect, care and love which shalu deserves it.
Sometimes it may take time for things to fall in to place when life gives us second chance then we should embrace it whole heartedly...so should shalu..Good luck shalu !!! Hope you learn your lessons from your mistakes and may you get the happiness you deserve.
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