Posted: 20 April 2016 at 12:21am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rock&roll
Interesting topic of discussion here & kinda controversial
never mind.,i love it...So my two cents
I too felt that Sumo was going really hard at Shravan about her mother's name getting tarnished and stuff,coz Shravan is a very very good friend who has left everything to help her out.He is doing his very bestest here and what he gets in return is (nateeja counts not iraada
..huh,really?)Lady,the Bhagvad Gita told me the opposite,effort counts not results
.Suman's only show of gratitude here is a "Thank u soo much".When that is all she can show in gratitude,then her criticism should be as (non) existent too.
But this story and the characters are not so simple.(or so I think ).So let us look at the other side.For one,a man like Shravan(shown to be high on ego,will power and self respect) is not hurt by this statement of Sumo's.In other other words,he wants to rectify(what he sees) as his mistake,but he is not miffed at her for showing(what we perceive) as lack of gratitude.In a somewhat similar situation a few weeks ago,Mr Big Ben insulted our lovely Suman wilfully and intentionally in a party after heavy planning.Though Sumo was upset about this for sometime,now she seems to have moved on.If I had been in her place,I would have taken years to get over such an insult.Agreed that the minar of Delhi is helping her out in a near life or death case,but to forget an insult like that takes a huge extra effort(maybe she has just put it in cold storage,it may resurface at the opportune moment)
So to cut a long story short:I have one of two conclusions..choose your pick
1) Sumo darling apparently has a big big big heart or has partial amnesia(likely the latter).
Our handsome hunk Shravan suffers from split personality disorder.That is why he hurts her so badly on one hand and then comes running to rescue the damsel in distress.
2)The two are so close to each other that they find it comfortable to voice their deepest feelings and bare all their vulnerabilites to each other.They know that come what may,the other person will understand. Shravan hurts Suman(party mein),but deep down he knows that this may offend her temporarily but will never make her move away from him fully.He knows that she will eventually understand and come through. Suman chides him telling him that his best effort is just not enough,but she knows that he will understand where she is coming from.After all we bare our deepest thoughts,insecurities and feelings only to the person we completely trust.The two feel comfortable enough to say anything anytime to each other.They know their relationship is secure and is forever.(such relationships do exist but are very very very rare).
Gng by ur logic tat Suman or u ll not forgive Shravan for the 5 mins party insult (which i still dont agree is an insult but Shravan asking quests which Suman couldnt answer) neither s'd Shravan ve forgiven Suman for insulting his mom in school bef every1. Hello Shravan at least insulted only Suman whereas ur darling Suman actually insulted him & his entire family bef the entire school. If I am in Shravan's place i w'd not even look at an unworthy friend like this nor insult friendship by calling her a friend. But here he is actually helping her. All i can say is its fiction so the more dramatic the more the TRPs. In real life Shravan ll not even come near Suman & Suman w'd ve carried on with her life & daily struggles finally marrying a guy & whining over how her husband doesnt love her
As i said i all boils down to personal taste & preferences. For many like u the friendship shown here is endearing. For few like me, my sis & my friends wat is being shown is an unhealthy 1 sided obsession where there is no care or affection frm the gal. And its a fact tat its off-putting for neutral viewers many of whom ve stopped watching the show religiously coz they r not seeing any growth in the character arc of the heroine. So all i can say is Lets agree to disagree
I am gng 2 try & stop posting bt the FL anymore coz the discussions dont go anywhere
Lets c how long i stick 2 my resolution. Mayb until the next time Suman starts screaming & screeching like a Banshee bt her mom. You can imagine how much the CVs ve ruined the character when i tell u that my 70 yr mom, 38 yr old hubby & 6.5 yr old kid were all like y is this female screaming non-stop like tis. There is grime, wipe it & move on... A scene which the CVs wanted 2 use as a symbolism that her mom's name is now sullied & tarnished & Suman is trying to wipe away that Kalank got reduced into an OTT shouting contest, DUH! Instead if the CVs had merely shown Suman walk to the board, wipe the dust off with her dupatta & whisper softly "Mom i will not let any1 tarnish ur name. I will fight till the end even if no1 is there to support me, till my last breath" Now that w'd ve been a poignant scene which w'd left all the viewers with a lump in their throat.
Instead they show this female again screaming at every1, haath thod doongi, pair thod doongi & reduced the entire scene into a tamasha making the viewers roll their eyes & do a facepalm.
Thumbs down to the CVs who initially showed emotions in a subtle manner